There is a question worth sitting with for a moment: What is Christianity actually for?

If you asked that question to a room full of believers, most would likely give some version of the same answer. It is about getting my soul to heaven after I die. And while the Christian hope absolutely includes life beyond death, that answer may be far smaller than what Jesus actually had in mind.

Consider what Jesus taught his disciples when they asked him how to pray. In Matthew 6:10, he pointed them toward a vision where God's kingdom comes and God's will is done on earth just as it is in heaven. Not eventually. Not only in eternity. Here. Now. Through people who are surrendered and faithful.

That changes everything about how we think about legacy.

If Christianity is primarily about getting to heaven, then legacy becomes little more than what we leave behind after we die. A name on a building. A family tradition. A saved-up inheritance. But if Christianity is about God's kingdom breaking into the present world through ordinary people who have yielded their lives to him, then legacy becomes something far more profound. It becomes a surrendering of everything we are and everything we have so that God's purposes can move through us and outlast us.

That is not a burden. That is an invitation to the most meaningful life imaginable.

The Danger Hidden in Good Desires

Most people genuinely want their lives to matter. We want our children and grandchildren to know Jesus. We want our resources to accomplish something. We want to make a difference. These are good and right desires.

But there is a spiritual danger that can quietly attach itself to those desires. The harder we work toward building something meaningful, the easier it becomes for that thing to become about us. What I built. What I left. What people will remember about me. The legacy starts as an offering and slowly becomes a monument.

So the real question is this: How do we live in a way that produces lasting fruit without making our entire life about ourselves?

Jesus answers that question directly in John 15:5, where he describes himself as the vine and his followers as the branches, stating that those who remain in him will produce much fruit, but that apart from him, nothing of lasting value can be produced. The answer is not trying harder. The answer is a spiritual posture, one that involves three movements: remain, release, and trust.

Remain: Connection Over Performance

Jesus does not tell the branch to work harder. He tells it to remain connected. The branch that stays attached to the vine produces fruit. The branch that is cut off, no matter how healthy it looks at first, eventually withers and produces nothing.

The same is true in the spiritual life. We can operate for a long time from our natural abilities, our giftings, our personality, our drive. And it can look productive for a while. But there is a difference between what God has placed in us as gifting and what God produces through us as fruit. One comes from our effort. The other comes from our connection.

Remaining in Jesus is not a mystical concept reserved for the spiritually elite. It is practical and repeatable. It means returning to Jesus continually. Listening to him. Talking to him. Learning from him. Obeying what he is calling you toward. When you get distracted, return. When you rely on yourself, notice it and return. When anxiety takes over, return. When your reputation starts to feel like something worth protecting at all costs, return.

There is also a humbling comfort in this posture. A newborn baby wraps tiny fingers around an adult hand and, in its limited understanding, believes it is the one holding on. But the reality is the opposite. The larger hand is holding the baby. In the same way, we often believe we are the ones gripping our faith, holding our lives together, maintaining our connection to God. But the deeper truth is that Jesus is holding us. Christian confidence does not come from how tightly we are holding on. It comes from knowing we are held.

Release: Open Hands Produce Harvests

In John 12:24, Jesus uses the image of a seed to describe how fruitfulness actually works. A kernel of wheat, he says, must be planted in the soil and die before it can produce a harvest. As long as it remains in your hand, it stays alone. But released into the ground, it multiplies.

A closed hand holds, protects, and controls. An open hand sows.

Releasing is not passive. It requires naming what you are gripping and intentionally giving God permission to use it. Your children. Your career. Your finances. Your gifts. Your reputation. Your future. Even your legacy itself must be surrendered, because a legacy held tightly in your own hands will never grow into what God intends it to be.

John 15:8 makes the connection plain. When followers of Jesus produce much fruit, it brings glory to God. So if the goal is that God would be glorified through your life, the path is releasing what you are holding so that he can do with it what only he can do.

Trust: The Hardest Part of Surrender

The third posture is trust, and it may be the most difficult of all. Because trust means releasing control of the outcome. You plant the seed. You do not grow it.

You cannot manufacture fruit. You cannot force a harvest. You can be faithful with what has been placed in your hands, and then you must place it back into God's hands and trust him with what grows. That is how a limited life produces fruit that outlives it.

A Proclamation Worth Carrying

Taken together, these three postures form a simple but powerful statement of faith. Jesus, you are my source. Everything I have is yours. The results belong to you.

Or said another way: Your kingdom come in me, through me, and after me.

That is not the burden of a kingdom. That is the joy of one.

There is a question worth sitting with today, one that cuts deeper than most of us are comfortable admitting: if someone learned everything they knew about Christianity exclusively by watching your life, what would they believe?

Not what you say on Sunday morning. Not the verses you post online. But the actual, unfiltered pattern of your daily life. How you handle stress. How you speak to the people you love most. Where you turn when the ground shifts beneath you. That is the question of legacy, and it is one that every believer must reckon with seriously.

We tend to think of inheritance in financial terms. Estates, trusts, savings accounts. We work hard to ensure that those who come after us are materially provided for, and there is nothing wrong with that. King Solomon acknowledged in Proverbs 13:22 that a good person leaves an inheritance for their grandchildren. But Jesus pressed deeper when he asked what it profits a man to gain the entire world and yet forfeit his own soul, as recorded in Mark 8:36. The implication is clear. There is something more valuable than anything we could accumulate, and it is the faith we carry and the faith we pass on.

Your Faith Must Be Visible

Faith, by its very nature, is invisible. But the effects of genuine faith are anything but. They show up in the way a person moves through difficulty. They surface in how someone responds when life refuses to cooperate with their plans. They are present in the quiet moments just as much as the loud, public ones.

Psalm 78:4 declares that we will not hide these truths from our children, that we will tell the next generation about the glorious deeds of the Lord, his power, and his mighty wonders. There is intentionality embedded in that language. It is not passive. It is not assumed. It is a decision to lead with faith rather than tuck it away as a private matter.

The research of psychologist Albert Bandura on social learning confirms what Scripture has always taught: human beings learn primarily through observation and modeling. Children do not learn how to handle crisis from a lecture. They watch. They absorb. They replicate. No one sits a child down and explains how stress should be managed or what marriage is supposed to look like. They simply watch the adults around them and build internal scripts that shape how they interpret the world for the rest of their lives.

This is why what we model matters so much. They may not know theology, but they know your temperament. They may not know chapter and verse, but they know how you treat the people closest to you. The question is not whether we are teaching those around us. We always are. The question is what we are teaching them.

Assure, Do Not Assume

One of the most sobering passages in all of Scripture appears in Judges 2:10. After all that the people of Israel had witnessed, the parting of the Red Sea, manna falling from heaven, the pillar of fire by night and cloud by day, a new generation arose that did not acknowledge the Lord or remember the mighty things he had done. An entire generation. Gone spiritually adrift not because God had failed them, but because the transfer of faith had been neglected.

How much silence does it take for a generation to forget? Apparently, not as much as we think.

This is the danger of assumption. We can assume that because we are living out our faith, those around us are simply absorbing it by proximity. But proximity is not possession. Exposure is not embodiment. An entire generation can live in the shadow of miraculous history and still walk away without knowing the God who authored it, simply because no one was intentional enough to say, let me tell you what God did for us.

Every family has a testimony. Every person carries a story of a moment they did not think they would survive, a season that should have broken them, a circumstance that had no natural exit, and yet somehow, God stepped in. Those stories are not just personal treasures. They are spiritual inheritance. When we withhold them, thinking we are protecting the people we love from difficulty or pain, we may actually be robbing them of the very faith-fuel they will need when their own storms arrive.

Be intentional about releasing those stories. Tell your children about the hard seasons. Tell them how God showed up. Let them hear you pray. Let them see you reach for Scripture when life gets heavy. Let them catch your faith before they ever need their own.

Do Not Just Know, Go

In Matthew 28:18-20, Jesus delivers what is known as the Great Commission. Having conquered death and risen in full authority, his charge to his followers is not to simply preserve what they have received. It is to go. To make disciples. To teach. To baptize. To carry the faith outward into every relationship, every workplace, every community.

This commission has not expired. It is still the call on every believer's life today.

Culture is discipling people constantly. Screens, platforms, music, and media are pouring content into hearts and minds for hours every day. The church gets a fraction of that time. Which means the responsibility of discipleship cannot be contained to one hour on a weekend. It has to spill over into the ordinary moments of everyday life, into conversations at the dinner table, into how we respond to a difficult phone call, into the grace we extend when someone wrongs us.

If God can get his goodness through you, he will bring more of it to you. The faith that lives inside you was never meant to stop there. It was meant to flow, to transfer, to ignite something in everyone who comes into contact with you.

So the invitation today is simple and weighty at the same time. Take inventory. Look at the patterns of your faith. Consider what is in your box. And then ask yourself whether you are willing to be as intentional about building a spiritual legacy as you are about building anything else in your life.

Some people may never encounter God anywhere except through their interaction with you. That is not pressure. That is purpose.

The Finishes Are Coming Together!

It is exciting to see more and more of our God Is Big Enough renovations taking shape! In this latest video, you’ll begin to see some of the finishes appearing throughout the Sanctuary and Welcome Center.

Many of you got an up-close look a couple of Sundays ago during Make Your Mark. What an incredible turnout! It was especially meaningful to see every generation of John Wesley participating and literally leaving their mark on this next chapter of our church.

We also have some important updates on our timeline. The Sanctuary is scheduled to be completed at the beginning of October, which will allow the audio, video, and lighting installation to begin. The remainder of the renovations are expected to be completed in early November. At that point, we will move back into the Sanctuary for worship and begin enjoying these wonderful new spaces together.

An Update on the Prayer Chapel
As part of the GIBE project, approximately $45,000 was budgeted for inspection and repairs to the exterior wall of the Prayer Chapel. You may have noticed the protective plastic covering the wall facing Bermuda Dunes. Once that wall was opened and a more thorough inspection could be completed, deterioration was discovered in some of the structural supports.
The contractor has now provided initial estimates for the additional work needed to properly repair the wall and restore the Prayer Chapel. Those estimates are over $100,000 beyond what we had originally anticipated.

Our Building Team is working closely with the architect and contractor to determine the best solution, including the appropriate materials and scope of work. We want to address the underlying issues correctly while also being good stewards of the resources entrusted to us.
You will hear more about the Prayer Chapel in the coming months, including renderings of the proposed work and additional information as plans are finalized.

For now, enjoy this latest construction update video, filmed this past Sunday.

There is a lot to celebrate as we watch our God Is Big Enough vision becoming a reality!

For weekly contractor updates click here. 

There are two words in the English language that carry more weight than we often realize. We use them casually, almost without thinking. We say them when holding a door open, or when gesturing for someone else to speak first. Those two words are simply: after you.

But what if those words carried a deeper meaning? What if they pointed to something far more significant than a polite gesture? Because the truth is, one day there will be an after you. After your career. After your parenting. After your influence. After your lifetime. And the question that should press itself into every believing heart is this: then what?

Christians are, at their core, resurrection people. The declaration at the center of the faith is that death does not have the last word. In John 11:25, Jesus identifies himself as the resurrection and the life, promising that those who believe in him will live even beyond physical death. That conviction changes everything, including how we think about the lives we are building right now. If we truly believe there is life after death, should we not think seriously about what happens after our life?

That question opens the door to one of the most challenging and rewarding conversations a believer can have: the conversation about legacy. Not just any legacy, but a kingdom legacy. Here are five marks that define what that looks like.

Everyone Leaves a Legacy

The first truth is simply this: everyone leaves a legacy. Legacy is not reserved for presidents, founders, or those whose names appear on buildings. Legacy is more like wet concrete. Walk across it, and you will leave an impression whether you intended to or not.

Deuteronomy 6:4-9, the passage that begins the ancient Hebrew prayer known as the Shema, paints a remarkably ordinary picture of how legacy is formed. It speaks of talking about faith at home, on the road, at bedtime, and at the start of each day. These are not extraordinary moments. They are Tuesday mornings and Friday evenings. They are the accumulated weight of ordinary decisions made over years and decades.

Legacy is not built in a single defining moment. It is built on a Monday, and then the following Thursday, and then years later on a Wednesday afternoon. It is shaped by our conversations, our priorities, what we celebrate, what we sacrifice, and what we worship. The root of the English word worship is worth-ship, meaning what we assign worth to. What we give worth to, we are worshiping. And that worship is quietly, constantly shaping the legacy we leave.

Not Every Legacy Is a Kingdom Legacy

This is where things get uncomfortable. We can leave behind property, wealth, successful businesses, strong reputations, scholarships, and charitable organizations. None of those things are bad. Many are genuinely wonderful. But the hard question for Christians is this: does something become a kingdom legacy simply because a Christian did it?

The honest answer is no. Every Christian will leave a legacy, but not every Christian will leave a kingdom legacy. It is entirely possible to love Jesus and still spend the majority of life building things that will end in this world. We can leave children and grandchildren material inheritance without leaving them any faith. We can leave behind success and reputation without ever discipling a single person. We can be remembered for what we accomplished without anyone knowing Jesus more because we lived and loved him.

The difference comes down to two questions. An earthly legacy asks: what will people remember about me? A kingdom legacy asks: what will God continue to do through me after me? The first question is not wrong. It is simply not enough for those who follow Christ.

Psalm 145 calls one generation to tell the next of God's mighty acts and his power, not their own. Kingdom legacy is not about extending your name. It is about extending his kingdom.

What Do We Place in God's Hands?

Kingdom legacy begins with stewardship. God has entrusted each of us with something, whether that is influence, relationships, resources, skills, or time. The question is what we choose to place back into his hands.

In John 15:4, Jesus uses the image of a vine and its branches, explaining that a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine. The spiritual reality is clear: we bear no fruit apart from dependence on God. Something can outlive us and still not carry kingdom weight if it was never truly surrendered to him.

Think of a relay race. You can run the greatest leg of your life, but if you never pass the baton to the next runner, the race does not continue and you are disqualified. Kingdom legacy requires passing the baton, entrusting to God what he has given us so that his purposes can run further than our own legs could ever carry them.

Kingdom Legacy Is a Surrendered Legacy

Stewardship leads naturally to surrender. If we hold tightly to everything God has placed in our hands, we are tempted to run the race entirely under our own power. And under our own power, the reach of what we build is limited to our own lifetime.

The biblical truth is this: kingdom legacy is faithfully placing what God has entrusted to us back into his hands for purposes that extend beyond us. That includes our influence, our resources, and the relationships he has given us. The question is not how much influence we have, but how much of that influence we return to God for his use.

God Can Multiply Faithfulness Beyond Your Lifetime

This is the extraordinary promise woven through all of it. God can multiply faithfulness beyond a single lifetime. Notice the word can. Not will automatically, but can, when we are faithful to place what we have been given back into his hands.

We may never see the greatest fruit of our faithfulness. There is a saying that the best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago. We plant in faith, trusting that God controls the fruitfulness even as we tend to the faithfulness. The goal is not seeing all the results. The goal is giving God something he can use.

One day there will be an after you. The most important question will not be how people remember you or what earthly legacy you leave behind. For those who follow Christ, the question will be: what did I faithfully place in God's hands that he continued to use after me?

May we spend our lives not building something that reminds the world we were here. May we build something that reminds the world that God is here.

For generations, faithful people have made possible the ministry we experience today at John Wesley Methodist Church. They gave, served, prayed, built, and sacrificed because they believed the ministry of the church should continue long after their own season of leadership was complete.

This September, as we ask, “What Legacy Will You Leave?” during our sermon series, “After You.”  We invite you to consider becoming part of the Willing Friends Society—a group of people who have chosen to include John Wesley Methodist Church in their estate plans.

A legacy gift is one way of saying: I want my commitment to God’s Kingdom to continue beyond my lifetime. Through a simple provision in your will, trust, retirement account, life insurance policy, or other estate plan, you can help ensure that future generations continue to Connect to Jesus, Grow in their faith, and Activate that faith in the world.

Each of us has a story at John Wesley.
Perhaps this is where you worshiped with your family, watched your children grow in faith, found friends who walked with you through difficult seasons, served people in need, discovered a deeper relationship with Christ, or experienced a community that became part of your life. A legacy gift allows your story of faithfulness to become part of someone else’s story.

What Is the Willing Friends Society?
The Willing Friends Society recognizes individuals and families who have chosen to remember John Wesley Methodist Church through their estate plans.
That might include a gift through:
• A will or trust
• A retirement account or IRA beneficiary designation
• A life insurance policy
• The JWMC Endowment
• Another planned or estate gift
By letting us know about your plans, John Wesley has the opportunity to thank you during your lifetime and celebrate the legacy of faith you are creating.

Leaving JWMC In Your Estate Tells The World
The ministry God has entrusted to us today is worth passing on to the generations who come after us.

Your legacy can help future generations:
✓ Connect people to Jesus and experience the transforming grace of Christ
✓ Grow disciples through worship, Bible study, small groups, children, students, and
adult ministries
✓ Activate followers of Jesus to serve our community and world
✓ Strengthen the long-term ministry of JWMC so that the church remains vibrant and
faithful for generations to come
A legacy gift isn’t simply about sustaining an organization. It is an investment in Kingdom work that can continue long after our own lifetime.

Why September Is a Good Time to Begin
September is Legacy Month at John Wesley, and throughout the month we are encouraging our church family to think about an important part of Christian stewardship that we do not talk about very often: What happens to the resources God has entrusted to us when our lifetime is complete?
Creating or reviewing an estate plan is an important way to care for the people we love and clearly communicate our wishes. It can also be an opportunity to prayerfully consider the ministries and Kingdom work that have mattered to us throughout our lives.
For many people, an estate gift may become one of the most significant acts of generosity they will ever make because it comes from resources accumulated over a lifetime.
A lifetime of faithfulness can become a legacy of ministry.
It could help disciple a child who hasn’t been born yet.
It could help a future student discover Christ.
It could strengthen worship and ministry for another generation.
It could help send future disciples into Houston and around the world to serve in Jesus’ name.
It could help ensure that decades from now, John Wesley is still connecting people to Jesus.

Planning for the End of Life—With Faith and Hope
Christians believe that death is real—but death is not the end. Our hope is in the resurrection of Jesus Christ and God’s promise of eternal life. Because of that hope, the church should be one of the safest places to talk openly about the end of this life and to prepare faithfully for it.
On September 25, Pastor Trish will lead a Legacy Seminar (Register Here).  She will help you think about and take away a set of resources designed to help you think through your wishes for a future funeral or memorial service.
Planning ahead gives you an opportunity to speak into how your faith and life will be remembered. It also provides an incredible gift to your family. During a season of grief, your loved ones won’t have to wonder what you would have wanted or make every decision on their own.

Your Legacy Starts Today
Legacy is bigger than what we leave behind.
Legacy is what continues because we were here.

If John Wesley has been an important part of your faith story, we invite you to prayerfully consider whether the ministry of this church might also become part of your legacy.
If you have already included John Wesley Methodist Church in your estate plans, please let us know. We would be honored to thank you and welcome you into the Willing Friends Society.
And if you haven’t yet made those plans, Legacy September is simply an invitation to begin the conversation.
What legacy will you leave?

Conflict is uncomfortable. Most of us would rather avoid it entirely, and many of us have tried. But the reality is that conflict is part of life — in marriages, in families, in friendships, and yes, even in the church. The question is not whether conflict will come. The question is what we do with it when it arrives.

There is a deeper question worth sitting with before any argument begins, before any harsh word is spoken, before the sun goes down on another unresolved tension. That question is simply this: what am I fighting for?

Conflict Is Not the Enemy

One of the most liberating things a Christian can understand is that conflict is not evidence that something is fundamentally broken. Two people who are different, who care about things, who have real needs and real feelings, are going to bump into each other. That is not a sign of failure. It is a sign of relationship.

The problem is not that conflict exists. The problem is where we let it go.

In Ephesians 4, the apostle Paul addresses this directly. He acknowledges that anger is real and that Christians will experience it, but he makes clear that unresolved anger does not stay neutral. It moves. It grows. Left unaddressed, it becomes bitterness, rage, harsh words, and slander. Paul is not describing the behavior of people who stopped caring. He is describing what happens when people who cared deeply allowed conflict to fester rather than face it.

Paul's instruction is not to pretend conflict does not exist. It is to move it somewhere — toward kindness, toward tenderheartedness, toward forgiveness. He anchors that call in something profound: forgive one another just as God through Christ has forgiven you. The standard is not what feels fair. The standard is the gospel itself.

What Conflict Reveals

Think about the last real disagreement you had with someone. Underneath it, what did you actually want? Most conflict begins with a legitimate desire — to be understood, to see something change, to have a problem solved. Those desires are not wrong. But somewhere in the heat of the moment, something shifts. The goal changes. What started as wanting resolution becomes wanting to win. What started as wanting to be heard becomes wanting the other person to hurt.

It happens quickly and it happens to everyone.

When the goal shifts from resolving a problem to winning an argument, something important is at stake. Winning an argument can cost you a relationship. Not addressing a real tension between two people can cost you a relationship. The way we communicate in conflict reveals what is happening in our hearts — whether we are genuinely trying to restore something or whether we have quietly decided that being right matters more than being reconciled.

This is worth sitting with honestly. Why do we replay arguments three days later? Why do we build mental cases, rehearsing every point we should have made? Why do we sometimes find ourselves fighting harder to prove something than to fix something? Conflict has a way of exposing what we are actually valuing in a given moment.

Remember Who You Are Fighting With

There is a common posture in conflict that most people fall into naturally. It is the posture of opposition — me on one side, you on the other, and everything becoming about what you did and what I did and who is more to blame. In that posture, the other person gradually stops being someone you love and starts being the problem itself.

But what if the posture were different? What if, instead of standing across from each other, two people stood side by side facing the actual problem together?

That shift is not just a communication technique. It is a spiritual discipline. It requires pausing long enough to remember who the other person actually is. A spouse is not an enemy. A child is not an enemy. A brother or sister in Christ is not an enemy. There is a problem out there that needs to be addressed, and the people in the relationship are meant to face it together.

When we find ourselves fighting against someone rather than with them, it is often a sign that we have lost sight of what we were fighting for in the first place.

Grace Moves Toward

In Matthew 18:15, Jesus gives remarkably direct instruction about conflict between believers. He says that if someone sins against you, go to them. Go privately. Go with the goal of winning that person back — meaning restoring the relationship, not winning the argument.

That single word is worth sitting with. Go.

Not talk about them. Not build a coalition of people who agree with you. Not wait and hope the tension dissolves on its own. Go. Move toward the person. Move toward the discomfort. Move toward reconciliation.

This does not mean every relationship is restored to exactly what it was. Rebuilding takes time. Boundaries are real and sometimes necessary. There are situations — particularly those involving abuse or genuine danger — where reconciliation in the traditional sense is not the path forward, and no one should remain in an unsafe situation in the name of keeping peace.

But the direction of grace is always toward. Not away. Not around. Toward.

This is not just a principle Jesus taught. It is something he demonstrated. The entire story of the gospel is the story of God moving toward people. Sin and brokenness created distance between humanity and God, and rather than waiting for humanity to close that gap, God moved toward us. The cross is the ultimate act of reconciliation — costly, intentional, and initiated by the one who had every right to stay away.

The Table That Changes Everything

That is the gospel we say we believe. And we are called to live it, not just hold it as a theological position.

No one has earned their place at the table of grace. Not through being right, not through winning an argument, not through finally getting someone else to admit fault. Grace alone is the reason any of us belongs there. And it is from that place — seated as recipients of a reconciliation we did not earn — that we are sent out to be people who move toward others, who fight for restoration, and who refuse to let conflict have the last word.

I want to express my personal gratitude to Andrew Klippert, who was willing to step up for JW and will be the lead for the modern worship team.

As we continue our search for our next full-time Director of Worship, we are grateful to have one of our own step into an important part of that role. Andrew Klippert will serve as our Interim Modern Worship Leader, helping lead our Modern Worship service each Sunday.

Andrew and his wife, Amy, joined John Wesley last year with their two children, Eloise and Theo. Andrew has already been a part of our worship team and has faithfully led us in worship on several occasions.

We are grateful for Andrew’s willingness to serve during this season. Please join me in welcoming and encouraging Andrew as he helps lead our church into the presence of God through worship each Sunday morning.

If God brings anyone into your life who might fit the Director of Worship role or one of our other open staff opportunities, please share the link to the job-opportunities page on the JW website.

There is a phrase that gets used often in Christian circles, one that sounds righteous on the surface but can quietly do a great deal of damage. The phrase is simple: "But it's true." Maybe a Facebook post was a little harsh, but it's true. Maybe someone's feelings got hurt in a conversation, but it's true. Maybe the tone was cutting and the timing was terrible, but it's true.

The problem is not the truth itself. The problem is the assumption hiding underneath that phrase — the assumption that truth, on its own, is enough.

It is not.

What Paul Actually Said

In Ephesians 4:15, the Apostle Paul writes about speaking the truth in love as a mark of spiritual maturity, describing how it leads believers to grow more and more like Christ, who is the head of the church. That verse has become one of the most quoted and most misapplied passages in the New Testament. Christians reach for it constantly, often as a kind of permission slip to say whatever they feel needs to be said to whoever they feel needs to hear it.

But read the verse again in its full context. Paul is not primarily writing about communication strategy. He is writing about spiritual maturity. The goal he sets before us is not simply getting truth out of ourselves and into someone else. The goal is getting more of Christ into us. The subject is formation. The subject is becoming.

Before Paul ever gets to speaking truth in love, he warns against being spiritually immature, like children tossed around by every new teaching and every clever distortion of the gospel. Maturity, he argues, is what produces healthy communication. You cannot separate how we speak from who we are becoming.

Check the Heart First

This is where kingdom communication begins — not with the other person, but with ourselves. A spiritually mature follower of Christ allows God to examine their own heart before deciding what someone else needs to hear.

It is worth sitting with that for a moment, because it runs against the grain of how we typically apply this passage. The natural impulse is to think immediately about the other person. They need to hear this. They need to know the truth. But Paul's framework asks us to turn inward first.

Why do I want to say this? Am I angry? Am I embarrassed and looking to protect myself? Am I trying to prove something, or do I genuinely want to help this person? Do I want resolution, or do I just want to be right?

These are not comfortable questions. But they are the right ones. The Holy Spirit does not need our assistance to convict someone's heart. He is remarkably capable of doing that work without our intervention. Before anyone appoints themselves as God's designated truth-teller for another person's life, wisdom demands asking whether God is actually calling them to that role, in that moment, with that person.

Truth Without Love

When truth gets stripped of love, something corrosive takes its place. What we sometimes call honesty is really aggression wearing a Bible verse as a costume. And the damage it does is real.

Paul continues in Ephesians 4:25, urging believers to stop telling lies and to tell their neighbors the truth — but notice the reason he gives. He does not say to speak truth because the other person is wrong. He says to speak truth because we are all parts of the same body. The foundation is connection, relationship, and shared belonging. Truth is spoken because the person matters, not because they need to be corrected or defeated or set straight.

Later in verse 29, Paul instructs that words should be good and helpful, offering encouragement to those who hear them. Tone, it turns out, is a theological statement. The way we speak communicates something about the God we follow. If we claim to represent a kingdom of grace and truth while treating people with contempt, we have already answered the question of which kingdom we actually serve.

Love Without Truth

The other failure is equally worth naming. Some people are not aggressive with truth — they simply avoid it altogether. The motivation is often good: they do not want to hurt anyone, they want to extend grace, they want to keep the peace. And sometimes letting something go is genuinely wise.

But sometimes what we call keeping the peace is simply avoiding a necessary conversation. And the avoidance does not make the problem disappear. It just redirects it. Instead of speaking directly to the person, we speak to everyone else about the person. What results is not peace — it is triangulation, and it is a pattern that quietly fractures communities and relationships.

Love does not mean saying everything. But love also does not mean never saying anything.

Grace Moves Toward, Truth Calls Forward

The clearest picture of what this looks like in practice is Jesus himself. In John 1:14, the apostle describes him as full of grace and truth — not one or the other, but both, held together in perfect tension.

Consider how Jesus approached Matthew, a tax collector despised by his own people for serving the Roman Empire and profiting at their expense. Jesus knew the full truth of who Matthew was and what he had done. He did not stand at a distance and shout that truth across the street. He moved toward Matthew. He went to his house. He sat at the table with Matthew and his equally disreputable friends.

Jesus loved them too much to leave them where they were. That is truth. And he moved toward them in relationship rather than condemnation. That is grace.

Grace moves toward. Truth calls forward.

Leaving the Chair at the Table

Here is a simple image worth carrying into every difficult conversation: leave their chair at the table.

Truth without love removes the chair. It pushes people out of the room and calls it righteousness. Love without truth never has the conversation at all. But truth spoken in love says, "You matter to me, and we need to talk about this."

The goal of kingdom communication is not better conflict resolution or more skillful rhetoric. The goal, as Paul frames it, is growing in every way more and more like Jesus Christ. The way we speak to one another is one of the most visible signs of whether that growth is actually happening.

May our words be full of grace. May they be full of truth. And may the two never be separated.

We live in a world that is loud. Relentlessly, exhaustingly loud. Social media feeds scroll endlessly with hot takes and rapid-fire reactions. News cycles churn out outrage by the hour. Conversations that could foster understanding instead become competitions to see who can speak the fastest, argue the sharpest, or land the final word. In the middle of all this noise, a quiet but revolutionary truth cuts through: love listens first.

It sounds simple. It is not.

The Anatomy of Listening

Before diving into what the Bible says about our words, it is worth pausing on what listening actually looks like in practice. Researchers and communication scholars have broken down the components of human communication, and the results are striking. Only 7% of what we communicate comes from the actual words we use. Another 38% is carried by tone of voice. A full 55% is body language. That means 93% of what we communicate has nothing to do with vocabulary.

Think about that for a moment. You can say all the right words and still communicate something cold, dismissive, or impatient. Conversely, you can communicate warmth, presence, and genuine care without uttering a single syllable. A musician playing an instrument says nothing and yet moves an entire room. A person leaning forward, making eye contact, and letting their face respond to what they hear communicates something profound: you matter, and I am here.

We all know what it feels like to be truly heard. It is one of the rarest and most beautiful gifts one human being can offer another. And we all know what it feels like to be talking to someone whose eyes are glazed over, whose responses are already loaded in the chamber before we have finished our sentence. The tragedy is that it is far easier to identify a bad listener when we are the one talking than it is to recognize ourselves as the bad listener.

What Jesus Said About Words

In Matthew 12, verses 33 through 37, Jesus delivers a teaching that cuts straight to the heart of communication. He uses the image of a tree and its fruit. A good tree produces good fruit. A bad tree produces bad fruit. The fruit does not lie about the tree. And then he makes the connection explicit: what fills the heart is what eventually pours out of the mouth. Our words are fruit. They reveal what is growing inside of us.

The context of this passage is important. Jesus had just healed a man who was blind, mute, and tormented. The crowd witnessed the miracle and began to wonder aloud whether Jesus could be the Messiah. The Pharisees, unwilling to acknowledge what they had seen, responded by claiming that Jesus performed the miracle through the power of Satan rather than the power of God. They could not change what happened, so they tried to change what it meant.

Jesus was not simply correcting bad theology in that moment. He was exposing a heart condition. The Pharisees' words revealed something deep and troubling about what was living inside them. Their communication was not a technique problem. It was a formation problem.

The Pattern James Gives Us

The book of James, chapter 1, verse 19, offers a pattern that stands in direct contrast to the communication habits the world tends to reward. The instruction is to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry. That sequence is intentional and important. Listening comes first. Speaking comes second. Anger is held back.

The world tends to invert this entirely. Reaction is instant. Anger is quick. Listening is an afterthought, if it happens at all. We are trained by algorithms and outrage culture to respond before we understand, to judge before we have heard the full story, to fire back before we have even asked a question.

Kingdom communication flips that script. It is more interested in understanding someone than in being understood. That is a hard truth to sit with, because most of us walk into conversations hoping to be heard, validated, or agreed with. The idea of entering a conversation with the primary goal of understanding the other person, especially someone we disagree with, requires something that does not come naturally. It requires a transformed heart.

Words Are a Witness

Here is a truth that carries enormous weight for anyone who claims the name of Christ: the world does not only hear what Christians believe. The world watches how Christians speak. Our words are a witness. The tone we use, the posture we carry, the patience we extend or withhold, all of it communicates something about the kingdom we claim to represent.

Proverbs 18, verse 21 reminds us that the tongue carries the power of life and death. Words can bring healing or harm, connection or distance, trust or suspicion, grace or condemnation. That is not a small thing. It means our words are never spiritually insignificant. Every conversation is an opportunity to either reflect the kingdom of God or distort it.

The church has spent a great deal of energy making sure it has something to say. And there is a place for speaking truth clearly and boldly. But what would happen if the church became equally known for its ability to listen? What if followers of Jesus were recognized not just for their convictions but for their curiosity? Not just for their answers but for the quality of their attention?

A Simple but Transformative Practice

The invitation is not to overhaul every conversation overnight. That kind of pressure produces performance, not transformation. Instead, the invitation is this: choose one conversation today, just one, where the only goal is to listen in order to understand. Not to fix. Not to respond. Not to defend or correct or redirect. Simply to understand.

Because kingdom communication does not begin with having the right words. It begins with having the right heart. And a heart that has been shaped by love does not rush to speak. It pauses. It leans in. It asks why. It stays curious.

Love listens first. And when it does, everything that follows has a chance to carry the weight of grace.

Eleven years ago, John Wesley began a new Wednesday night rhythm built around a simple idea: gather around a meal, connect together around scripture, and create a place in the middle of the week where kids, students and adults could grow in their faith.

And God has used it faithfully.

Over those years, friendships have been formed, scripture has been studied, children have grown up in the church, and countless people have taken important steps in their relationship with Jesus. Wednesday nights have been an important spiritual growth mechanism for our church, and we celebrate what God has done through them.

But one of the lessons I’ve learned about discipleship is this: Methods change. Schedules change. Communities change. The seasons of people’s lives change. But the mission never changes.

At John Wesley, that mission remains beautifully simple: Connecting People to Jesus.
So the question I have been asking myself and your staff is: “How can Wednesday nights help even more people stay connected or take their next step toward Jesus?”

In recent years, I've increasingly sensed that John Wesley needs to create more opportunities to connect with the community around us. We want to be a church that helps people navigate real life, speaks biblical truth into the real-life questions people are asking, and creates places where someone who may not yet have a church home can comfortably walk through our doors.

At the same time, life rhythms have changed. Young families are navigating school, sports, homework, and complicated schedules. Working adults may not be able to make the same commitment every Wednesday. Retirees want meaningful opportunities for connection and spiritual growth without necessarily committing to another weekly class. And there are still people who want a consistent weekly or biweekly place to study scripture and build deep relationships.

How do we create room for all of them?

That question has led us through an extended season of discernment, prayer, conversation, and planning. Our staff has spent significant time looking at what is working, what could work better, and how we can more effectively fulfill our mission.

We also listened to you. This Spring, we surveyed the congregation about Wednesday nights. Your responses helped confirm some things we were already sensing while giving us new ideas about what people need in this season. Out of that process comes a newly envisioned Wednesday night rhythm. 

We’re Creating More Pathways into Discipleship
Instead of asking everyone to participate in the same Wednesday night experience every week, we’re creating a variety of intentional discipleship environments throughout the year.

There will be Bible Study seasons where students and adults journey through Scripture together. There will be  Worship Nights bringing neighbors and generations together for music, prayer, bible study, and the presence of God.

We’re launching Real Questions, a new environment where people can bring honest questions about faith, life, culture, and Scripture into thoughtful, grace-filled conversation.

In the Spring, you will hear about Fresh Encounters will create space for soul care and renewal.

Our successful MomCo ministry will continue creating community for moms. Our children will grow through JW Kids Music & Worship and JW Kids Connection, while our student ministry continues developing its Life Group model for relational discipleship.

We’re placing renewed emphasis on adult Life Groups. For those who desire a consistent weekly, biweekly, or monthly rhythm of scripture, relationships, prayer, and discipleship, Life Groups provide that opportunity. New groups will continue forming throughout the year.

Every Wednesday you can be involved in activating your faith by serving on the Worship & Music Team.  Join our amazing Traditional Choir at 7:30 p.m. for rehearsal.  

The mission and vision are the same.  The goal will continue to be: some people connecting through a four-week Bible study. Someone else may first walk through our doors because a friend invited them to Real Questions. Another person may encounter God at a Worship Night. A young mother may discover community through MomCo. Someone wanting deeper relationships may join a Life Group.

Different gatherings. Different rhythms. One purpose.
Connecting People to Jesus.

There’s another important reason for this change. We want Wednesday nights to become one of the easiest places at John Wesley to invite someone. One of the greatest gifts you can give another person is an invitation. Think about who invited you—to church, to a Bible study, to worship, or simply into a conversation that helped you discover something about God. Those invitations can become turning points in people’s lives.

You will notice that when the bible study and the worship service is offered, we are putting the word "community" in front of it.  This is intentional in order for those in our community and neighborhood to feel those moments are for them, just as much as they are for us.  

So we’re intentionally creating gatherings where you can easily say:
“We’re having a Community Worship Night Wednesday. Come with me.”
“We’re starting a four-week Community Bible study. Want to do it together?”
“Our church is having a night where people can ask real questions about faith and life. I think you’d enjoy it.”

We want Wednesday nights to serve those who already call John Wesley home and become a front door for people in our community who don’t yet.

We believe people come alive when they encounter Christ through scripture, worship, prayer, authentic relationships, honest conversations, and a community that genuinely cares. That’s what we want Wednesday nights to be about. We’re taking everything we’ve learned over the past eleven years and building upon it—creating a new rhythm of discipleship that is biblical, relational, intergenerational, invitational, and accessible to more people.

I know change can sometimes feel uncomfortable. But honoring the past doesn’t require us to recreate it forever. We can be profoundly grateful for what God has done while remaining open to what God wants to do next. Methods can change. The mission does not.

So as we begin this new season, I’m asking you to do more than attend.
Invite someone.

Pray for someone.

Welcome someone.

Walk alongside someone.

Help someone discover the light of Christ.

My prayer is that years from now we will look back on this season and see people who are part of John Wesley—and part of the Kingdom of God—because we were willing to create a place for them and someone cared enough to say: “Come with me.” 

Let’s help our community connect to Jesus.

In Christ,

Rev. Dr. Marty Dunbar
Senior Pastor

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There is a place in southeastern Alaska called the Endicott Arm, a thirty-mile-long fjord carved into the earth by forces that worked slowly, silently, and with extraordinary purpose. At its far end sits the Dawes Glacier, rising nearly two hundred feet above the waterline, ancient and massive. If you were to stand and watch it, you would see nothing move. The glacier appears completely still, frozen in time, doing nothing at all.

But that stillness is an illusion.

Beneath what the eye can observe, the glacier is moving. Compressed snow accumulates year after year, feeding the mass forward at a pace no human can detect in real time. And as it moves, it carves. It has been carving for centuries, hollowing out valleys of extraordinary depth, shaping the very landscape that now draws visitors from around the world. What looks motionless is actually producing something profound.

That image is a striking picture of what God is often doing in the human soul.

The Temptation to Mistake Slow for Absent

One of the most common struggles in the spiritual life is the feeling that nothing is happening. We pray. We obey. We show up. We wait. And yet the evidence of change feels thin, the fruit feels distant, and the weariness begins to accumulate. We start to wonder whether faithfulness is actually working.

This is precisely the tension that James addresses in the first chapter of his letter. In James 1:2-4, he urges his readers to consider it pure joy when they face trials of many kinds, because the testing of faith produces perseverance, and perseverance, when it is allowed to finish its work, produces maturity and completeness.

That word "consider" is important. James is not asking anyone to pretend that suffering is pleasant or to manufacture happiness in the middle of grief. He is asking for a reorientation of perspective, an honest reckoning with what God might be doing beneath the surface of a difficult season.

The spiritual truth embedded in those verses is this: time alone does not deepen us. Pain alone does not deepen us. Many people have lived through decades of hardship and emerged no more formed than when they began. What produces depth is faith cooperating with God's grace through the trial. That cooperation is what James calls perseverance, and perseverance, sustained over time, is what builds genuine spiritual depth.

What Testing Actually Reveals

Testing does something uncomfortable but necessary. It reveals what our faith actually rests on. When circumstances are favorable and life is working, faith can appear strong without ever being tested. But trials expose the roots. They show whether what we believe goes deep enough to hold us when the ground shifts.

This is not a punishment. It is more like the work of a glacier. The pressure and weight of accumulated difficulty, when met with faithful endurance, does not crush the soul. It carves it. It shapes it into something with greater capacity, greater depth, greater ability to hold the weight of what God wants to place in it.

Paul echoes this in Philippians 2:13, where he reminds his readers that God is actively working within them, supplying both the desire and the power to do what pleases him. The endurance is not generated by sheer willpower or gritted teeth. It is sustained by the Holy Spirit, who keeps feeding the soul with grace the way fresh snow keeps feeding a glacier, year after year, quietly and continuously.

Letting Perseverance Finish

James uses a phrase worth sitting with: "Let perseverance finish its work." That word "let" implies a choice. It implies that we can, in fact, interrupt the process.

And we do interrupt it, more often than we realize. We abandon obedience when it becomes difficult. We demand immediate evidence that our faithfulness is producing something. We isolate ourselves and attempt to carry burdens that were never meant to be carried alone. We allow disappointment to harden into cynicism. Each of these is a way of stepping in front of the work that God is trying to do.

Letting perseverance finish means faithfully refusing to allow weariness to have the final word. It does not mean pretending the weariness is not real. It means acknowledging it honestly while choosing not to let it define the outcome.

Depth That Turns Outward

Here is where the picture of the glacier becomes even more instructive. The glacier does not carve a valley for its own benefit. The depth it creates becomes a place where others can travel, where beauty can be experienced, where life can take root along the carved-out shores.

Spiritual maturity works the same way. James makes clear that the goal of perseverance is not simply a stronger individual. It is a complete person, one who lacks nothing, which means one who has something to give. Mature faith always turns outward. Paul writes in 1 Thessalonians 5 that believers are to encourage one another and build each other up. The depth that endurance produces is not meant to be hoarded. It is meant to be shared.

This means that if perseverance has only made us more personally resilient without making us more attentive to the people around us, the work is not yet finished. Real spiritual depth becomes visible in how we treat the people who are carrying pain beside us.

Becoming a Noticer

There is a practical invitation hidden inside all of this. Look around this week and identify one weary person in your life. It might be a parent who is tired of doing the right thing and wondering if it matters. It might be a caregiver carrying an invisible burden, a teacher heading into a new school year full of doubt, a volunteer who feels unseen, or someone in recovery who simply needs to know that grace is still sufficient.

Find that person. And remind them that God's grace does not run out. Remind them that slow is not the same as absent. Remind them that something is being carved in them that they cannot yet see, and that they do not have to walk through it alone.

The valleys we stand in today were shaped by forces that worked long before we arrived. God has been carving depth in human lives since the beginning. He has not stopped.

Do not mistake the stillness for absence. The glacier is still moving

There's a conversation many of us dread having—the kind that keeps us awake at night, replaying scenarios over and over in our minds. What will they say? What will I say? What if they bring it up? What if they don't? These anxiety-filled moments reveal something deeper: our fear of facing our failures, especially when we wonder if God can still use someone who has fallen as hard as we have.

The apostle Peter knew this feeling intimately.

The Bold Disciple Who Fell

Peter wasn't just another follower of Jesus—he was the disciple. Bold, confident, and sometimes overconfident, Peter was the one who declared, "You are the Christ" when Jesus asked who the disciples believed him to be. He was the one who stepped out of the boat to walk on water when everyone else stayed safely seated. Peter knew what to say when others were uncertain. He wasn't perfect, but he was passionate.

Then came that fateful Thursday night at the Passover celebration. Jesus looked Peter in the eyes and said, "Before the rooster crows, you will deny me three times." Peter couldn't fathom it. "I'll die for you before I deny you," he insisted with characteristic boldness.

But only hours later, standing around a charcoal fire, Peter did the unthinkable. He denied even knowing Jesus. Not once. Not twice. But three times. Luke's Gospel tells us that after the third denial, Jesus looked directly at Peter—not with anger or disappointment, but with a look that pierced straight through to Peter's soul. Broken and ashamed, Peter ran away weeping.

The last memory Peter had before the cross was his greatest failure.

The Awkward Resurrection

After the resurrection, something remarkable happened. When Jesus appeared to Mary Magdalene and told her to go tell the disciples, he specifically said, "Go tell my disciples and Peter." Jesus called him by name. Peter saw the empty tomb. Peter even saw the resurrected Christ in person. But something still hadn't happened—they hadn't had the talk. The air hadn't been cleared.

Can you imagine the awkwardness? The tension every time Jesus appeared must have been thick. Peter was probably stressing: Should I bring it up or will he? Have I thrown it all away? What's my status now?

Breakfast by Another Charcoal Fire

In John chapter 21, we find the disciples fishing on the Sea of Tiberias. After catching nothing all night, a stranger on the shore tells them to throw their nets on the right side of the boat. When they do, the nets fill with 153 large fish. They realize the stranger is Jesus.

Here's where the story takes a beautiful turn. John gives us a seemingly small detail that carries enormous significance: "When they got out on the land, they saw a charcoal fire already made and fish placed on it and bread."

That phrase—"charcoal fire"—appears only twice in the entire New Testament. The first time was when Peter denied Jesus around a charcoal fire. Now, intentionally, Jesus uses another one. This wasn't coincidental. Everything in Scripture is there for a reason.

Jesus often takes us back to the place of our deepest failures—not to shame us, but to heal us. Many of us spend our entire lives avoiding these places, but Jesus walks right into them and invites us to come be with him.

Three Questions, Three Restorations

After breakfast, Jesus asked Peter a simple question: "Simon, son of John, do you love me?"

"Yes, Lord, you know that I love you," Peter replied.

"Tend my lambs," Jesus responded.

Then Jesus asked again. "Simon, son of John, do you love me?"

"Yes, Lord, you know that I love you."

"Shepherd my sheep."

A third time: "Simon, son of John, do you love me?"

Peter was hurt by the third question, but he answered, "Lord, you know all things. You know that I love you."

"Tend my sheep."

Three denials. Three questions. Three opportunities for restoration.

Notice what Jesus didn't ask: "Why did you fail me?" "Have you learned your lesson?" "How can I ever trust you again?" Instead, he asked the most fundamental question: "Do you love me?"

Jesus wasn't primarily interested in Peter's failure. He was interested in Peter's heart. And the beautiful truth is that Jesus, who hasn't changed since that beach conversation, feels the same way about us today.

Grace Speaks to Identity Before Assignment

Here's a transformative truth: Grace speaks to identity before it speaks to assignment.

Jesus didn't begin with the task—"Feed my sheep." He began with relationship—"Do you love me?" Our culture says perform first, then you'll have value. Jesus says you are loved first, now let's serve together.

Paul captures this beautifully in 2 Corinthians 5:17: "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, this person is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, new things have come."

We've been conditioned to think we just need to work harder, make promises to God that we'll never fail again, or wait until we finally get it all together before God can use us. But that's not what Scripture teaches. Our identity isn't built on our worst moment—it's built on grace and mercy.

Redemption, Not Deletion

Here's more good news: Jesus doesn't ignore your failure—he redeems it. To redeem means to buy back or ransom someone from bondage by paying a price. Jesus paid that price.

Peter still denied Jesus three times. That really happened. Grace doesn't erase our history; grace redeems our history. Some of us wish God would just delete chapters of our lives. Instead, God says, "I'm going to write another chapter using your failure as a stepping stone to places you never thought possible."

Like a stained glass window, you can see where it was broken, but now light shines through it in a brand new way. Our cracks become testimonies of God's grace. They tell a story—not about how we received those cracks, but about how God redeemed them, healed them, and is using them for his glory.

Restored for a Purpose

After every question, Jesus gave Peter an assignment: Feed my lambs. Shepherd my sheep. Feed my sheep.

Notice that Jesus didn't lower Peter's calling or diminish his place among the disciples. He didn't tell Peter to earn back his status. He renewed him. Jesus restores before he reassigns.

God didn't save us simply to give us a golden ticket to heaven. He restored us so we could participate in the beautiful kingdom work he's doing right here, right now. David the psalmist wrote, "He restores my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name's sake" (Psalm 23).

Restoration always leads somewhere. It leads to purpose.

Your Stained Glass Story

Maybe your greatest failure wasn't public—it was private. Maybe no one knows about it but you and God. Perhaps it involved your marriage, a business decision, an addiction, words you can't take back, or years you think you've wasted.

Here's the truth: Failure may explain part of your story, but it doesn't get to write the ending. Jesus does.

Peter's story didn't end around the first charcoal fire. It ended with him proclaiming Christ, leading the church, feeding the sheep, and eventually giving his life because of his relationship with Jesus. Not because Peter was stronger or more extraordinary than us, but because grace mended the cracks in his stained glass story.

Jesus still does this today. He mends us, puts us back together, and restores us. Then he says, "Now go and feed my sheep."

Maybe you've been sitting on the sidelines, convinced you've failed too much or too big. That's exactly what the enemy wants you to think. The enemy wants you focused on your failures. Jesus wants you defined by his grace.

Today, hear Jesus asking the same question he asked Peter: "Do you love me?"

You don't have to be perfect. You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to be a Bible scholar. It's a simple question. Do you love Jesus?

If the answer is yes, then don't stay by the charcoal fire. Follow him. Serve him. Tell your stained glass story. Let people see your humanity. Because your restored life is one more piece of stained glass through which the light of Christ shines in this world.

Which do you need today—restoration or reassignment? Jesus is ready to give you either one.

Picture a piece of stained glass lying on a table. By itself, it doesn't look impressive at all. It's jagged, broken, sharp around the edges. Sometimes it's dirty. It might even be cracked. But place that same piece into the hands of a master artist, let light shine through it, and suddenly everyone steps back in wonder. The glass didn't change—the light changed everything.

This is precisely what God does with our lives.

Seeing from the Wrong Side

Have you ever looked at the backside of a tapestry or embroidery? From behind, it's a chaotic mess—knots everywhere, threads hanging loose, colors going in every direction. Nothing makes sense. But flip it around to see the front, and suddenly there's a beautiful, intricate design. The front is gorgeous precisely because the back was a strategic mess.

How many of us are still judging our lives from the wrong side? We look back and see only the knots, the loose ends, the disappointments and broken dreams. But God sees the other side. He sees where we're headed. He sees the finished product.

Present Suffering and Future Glory

In Romans 8:18, Paul writes something profound: "For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared to the glory that is to be revealed to us."

Notice what Paul doesn't say. He doesn't dismiss suffering as unreal or unimportant. He's writing to believers who had lost family members, jobs, and livelihoods because they followed Jesus. Paul himself was writing from his own suffering. What he's actually saying is this: "I know this is tough, but God will get glory from this through you."

That's a radically different statement than pretending pain doesn't exist.

Paul continues in verse 22: "For we know that the whole creation groans and suffers the pains of childbirth until now." Everything—all of creation, ourselves, even the Holy Spirit—is groaning together, pointing toward restoration and redemption. When we forget that restoration is the end game, that's when we get stuck.

The Dangerous Prayer

Has anyone ever prayed, "Lord, make me patient"? Stop. Stop praying that prayer—unless you're ready for God to answer it.

Because God develops patience through opportunities to be patient. He develops compassion through pain. He develops endurance through difficult times. And He develops forgiveness through people who are hard to forgive.

God changes us using events—both good and bad—in our lives. But we have to embrace those changes. When we don't, we become stuck in seasons we never intended to remain in. We love it when God changes our circumstances, but we resist when He wants to change us.

A Story of Redemption

Consider a woman who married her high school sweetheart, believing she was entering the lifelong covenant God designed. Instead, she found herself in a verbally and physically abusive relationship. She discovered ongoing affairs and hidden motives. She learned he had married her simply to make more money in the military.

She felt broken, unwanted, unworthy. Even though she continued going to church, serving, leading worship, and reading God's Word, there were many days when she couldn't feel His presence. After a difficult divorce, she wandered for a long time, convinced that brokenness was all she would ever know.

But God was working when she couldn't see Him. He was healing what she thought could never be restored.

One night, she prayed a specific prayer: if God had a husband for her, he would have to love Jesus more than anything else and reflect Christ's love in their home. Not long after, she met someone who exceeded every detail of her prayer.

Years later, her ex-husband reached out, apologizing and sharing that because he always saw her reading her Bible and "doing the church thing," he decided to see what it was about. He and his entire family had given their lives to the Lord.

Today, she has an incredible marriage, three boys, and a home centered on worship. Looking back, she stands on Jeremiah 32:17: "Is there anything too hard for me?"

But God. Those two words change everything.

All Things Work Together

Romans 8:28 is one of the most quoted verses in Scripture: "And we know that God causes all things to work together for the good to those who love God and to those who are called according to His purpose."

Notice carefully: Paul doesn't say everything is good. Cancer isn't good. Divorce isn't good. Abuse isn't good. Neither is betrayal or untimely death. Paul never claims that.

He says God works all these things for good. There's a massive difference between saying something is good and saying God works it for good. God consistently takes what is broken in the world's hands and weaves it into redemption.

Nothing is wasted in God's hands. Not our failures. Not our tears. Not the times of waiting. Not our unanswered prayers. Not our darkest nights. If you've placed your life in the hands of Jesus Christ, nothing—absolutely nothing—is wasted.

The Better Question

Perhaps you've been asking "Why?" Maybe you're in the middle of a difficult situation right now, searching for answers. It's okay to ask God why. He's big enough to handle your questions.

But maybe there's a better question: "God, what changes are you trying to accomplish in me through this situation?"

That prayer takes courage. But it shifts our focus from demanding explanations to embracing transformation.

Stronger at the Broken Places

When a stained glass window is repaired, the repaired place often becomes stronger than the original. Why? Because it receives new leading, new support, new structure.

Many of us have become stronger after our hardest seasons than we ever were before—not because the pain was good, but because God is good. Even when we didn't have the strength to get through it ourselves, we can look back and see that He carried us.

God isn't trying to recreate the old you. He doesn't want you as you were at 15, 20, 30, or 40. He wants you right where you are now, shaped by everything you've been through. He's creating something new in you, something that looks more like His Son, Jesus.

Inseparable Love

Paul ends Romans 8 with one of Scripture's greatest declarations: "Neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor demons, nor present, nor future, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all of creation will separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus."

That's the light behind the stained glass. That's why the cracks never have the final word.

Your story is no longer about what happened to you. It's about what God is doing through you. God doesn't restore us so we can simply admire the repair. He restores us so His light can shine through us for the rest of the world to see.

Step back from the broken pieces. Let the light shine through your story. Because in God's hands, nothing—absolutely nothing—is wasted.

We live in an age of instant everything. Two-day shipping has become same-day delivery. Streaming has replaced waiting for your favorite show to air next week. We track our packages in real-time, watching them move from warehouse to truck to doorstep. This culture of immediacy has rewired our expectations—not just for Amazon deliveries, but for how we expect God to work in our lives.

When we pray and don't see immediate results, we assume God isn't listening. When circumstances don't change quickly, we wonder if He's paying attention at all. But what if the waiting itself is the answer? What if God is doing His deepest work precisely when we think He's doing nothing?

The Prophet Who Dared to Ask "How Long?"

The book of Habakkuk offers a refreshing perspective on faith and waiting. Unlike other prophetic books where God speaks and the prophet listens, Habakkuk reverses this pattern. Here, the prophet speaks to God, and God answers. This dialogue affirms a profound spiritual truth: faith isn't pretending we don't have questions. Faith is bringing our honest questions to the One who can truly answer them.

Habakkuk looked around at God's chosen people and saw devastation. Violence was everywhere. Justice had failed. The wicked prospered while the righteous suffered. And this wasn't a temporary situation—it had been going on for over 200 years. Generation after generation had walked away from God, making corrupt deals with enemies, abusing each other, and ignoring divine guidance.

So Habakkuk cried out: "How long, O Lord, must I call for help, but you do not listen? Violence is everywhere. I cry, but you do not come to save."

Those two words—"how long"—echo through the centuries. How long until the grief lifts? How long until this addiction breaks? How long until this relationship heals? How long until You answer?

God's Unexpected Answer

God's response to Habakkuk was stunning: "Look around the nations. Look and be amazed. For I am doing something in your own day, something you wouldn't believe even if someone told you about it. I am raising up the Babylonians."

The Babylonians. The most cruel and violent empire of that era. God was going to allow an evil nation to do evil things, and somehow use that darkness to reshape and refocus His people.

Imagine hearing that answer to your prayer. You ask God to fix the brokenness, and He tells you He's going to use the most broken instrument imaginable to do it. This is the mystery of divine sovereignty—God can use even the darkest circumstances to accomplish His redemptive purposes.

The Watchman's Vigil

Habakkuk's response reveals the essence of mature faith. He said, "I will climb up to my watchtower and stand at my guard post. There I will wait to see what the Lord says and how he will answer my complaint."

Picture an ancient watchman climbing the city walls in the darkness. The night is long. He cannot make morning come. He cannot force a messenger to arrive with news. He has no control over the sunrise or the future. His only responsibility is to remain faithful at his post.

This is the spiritual posture of waiting: Faith isn't forcing God's hand. Faith is remaining at your post until God moves.

Living by Faithfulness

God's response to Habakkuk includes one of the most important lines in all of Scripture: "The righteous will live by faith."

In Hebrew, the word for faith is emunah, which doesn't simply mean believing something is true. It means steady, firm, continuing trust. It's the root of the word "amen"—which doesn't just end a prayer, but declares, "This is trustworthy. I stand firmly in this."

The righteous live by steady, firm, continuing trust in God—especially when life doesn't make sense.

This isn't just about salvation or getting into heaven. It's about how we keep trusting God through the waiting seasons, the confusing chapters, the unanswered prayers. It's about who we become while we wait.

The Workshop of Transformation

Waiting isn't just about what God is preparing for you. Waiting is about who God is preparing you to become.

God's work in our lives doesn't end at forgiveness. Before we knew God, He pursued us—that's grace. When we surrender to Christ, He forgives us—that's also grace. But God isn't finished. Slowly, quietly, patiently, through every act of obedience, every disappointment where we remain faithful, every season of waiting, God is making us more like Jesus.

Faithful waiting is one of God's primary workshops for spiritual transformation.

Consider the testimony of someone who endured a challenging childhood—lacking protection though having basic needs met. For years, she wondered why difficult things were allowed to happen. But later, working with traumatized children, she developed a soul-deep empathy that could only come from her own past pain. Her wounds became her deepest compassion. God didn't erase her childhood memories or simply remove her pain. He transformed both the pain and the person.

This is the wounded healer effect—God doesn't merely rescue us from our past; He reshapes our hearts through our past.

From "How Long" to "Yet I Will Rejoice"

The book of Habakkuk moves from chapter one's desperate "how long" to chapter three's triumphant "yet I will rejoice":

"Even though the fig trees have no blossoms and there are no grapes on the vines, even though the olive crop fails and the fields lie empty and barren, even though the flocks die in the fields and the cattle barns are empty, yet I will rejoice in the Lord. I will be joyful in the God of my salvation. The Sovereign Lord is my strength. He makes me as surefooted as a deer, able to tread upon the heights."

Notice what God does: He doesn't remove the mountain. He changes the climber. He makes Habakkuk surefooted, able to navigate the difficult terrain.

This is spiritual transformation—not the removal of all obstacles, but the development of strength, wisdom, and trust to navigate them.

The Artist's Workshop

Imagine walking into a stained-glass artist's workshop. You see hundreds of scattered glass pieces, a frame being developed, tools everywhere. Nothing looks finished. Nothing looks beautiful. You might wonder if anything is actually happening.

But the artist smiles because they already know what the picture will be. They see the masterpiece before it exists.

Life often feels like those unfinished pieces lying on the artist's table. Nothing seems complete. Nothing seems to make sense. But don't mistake unfinished for abandoned. The Artist is still working. His greatest work is happening in the waiting—shaping hearts, growing spirits, deepening trust, teaching love, making us more into the image of Christ.

One day, when His light shines through, the world will see His story and His beauty reflected in our transformed lives.

God's greatest work isn't simply changing our circumstances. His greatest work is changing us.

America is 250 years old. As I reflect on that milestone, my heart is filled with gratitude.

I thank God that I was born in this country. Despite our flaws, I still believe America is one of the greatest blessings God has allowed in human history. Millions have come to these shores searching for freedom, opportunity, refuge, and a better future. They came because there is something beautiful worth pursuing here.

Our nation is not perfect. Like every nation that has ever existed, America bears the marks of humanity’s greatest problem—not politics, not economics, not geography—but spiritual brokenness.

Racism is real. Injustice is real. Broken systems exist. Sometimes those systems are created intentionally. Sometimes they simply become the accumulated consequences of generations of broken people making broken decisions. This human spiritual problem always leaves a trail behind it. The Bible (Christian scriptures) has never hidden that reality.

The reality is pride, greed, hatred, fear, and selfishness have left scars on every generation. But those are not uniquely American problems—nor are they Democrat or Republican or Trump problems, they are human problems. They are the fruit of hearts that need the transforming grace of Jesus Christ.

The answer has never been to fear one another. It has never been to hate one another. It has never been to believe that our neighbor is our enemy. It has never been to slander or judge each other’s hearts. Especially if you call yourself a Christ-follower. You are not the Holy Spirit.  You are not the judge or the conviction for others.

The beauty of the Gospel message that has shaped our nation and the world. And do not believe the false narrative that Christianity has not shaped either, it has and always will. But America is not God’s saving vessel, Jesus Christ is the way, truth, and life for all people.

The Gospel reminds us that while spiritual brokenness has some power, Jesus is greater. And scripture tells the story of an all-loving and redemptive God, who desires to never leave people in their brokenness. Matter of fact, faith in God through Jesus doesn’t simply forgive broken people. He restores them. He reconciles enemies. He heals hearts. He tears down walls of hostility. He teaches us to see one another not as opponents to defeat but as neighbors to love and people created in the image of God.

One of the greatest tragedies of our time is that we are continually told to fear one another. To stay angry. To assume the worst. To believe that people who vote differently, look differently, think differently, or have a different culture must somehow be our enemies.
I don’t believe that is the heart of Christ. The earliest Christians would have thought modern-day Christians were crazy.  

The enemy has always delighted in division because divided people stop seeing the image of God in one another. Divided people stop seeking identity in a loving Heavenly Father and look for their identity in worldly things.

I have been so delighted over the last several weeks, as the world has gathered in our great nation for the World Cup, we’ve heard countless stories from visitors who have experienced kindness, generosity, hospitality, and genuine welcome from ordinary Americans. Their stories remind us that the loudest voices rarely represent the best of us. The daily acts of compassion, sacrifice, and neighborly love happening across this country almost never make the headlines—but they are real, and they are happening every single day. And we really are the freest and greatest nation on the earth (whether some people believe it or not).

I still believe there is far more good in America than we sometimes allow ourselves to see. I believe in the generosity of her people. I believe in the compassion of her communities. I believe in the resilience of her families. I believe in the courage of those who serve. I believe in the churches that faithfully love their neighborhoods. And I believe there is still hope for our future.

Not because America is perfect. But because God has always done His best work through imperfect people who humble themselves, repent, seek His face, and love their neighbors.
As Christians, our ultimate citizenship is in the Kingdom of God. Our highest allegiance will always belong to Jesus Christ. Yet that very allegiance should make us the kind of citizens who build rather than tear down, who listen before speaking, who seek justice with humility, who extend mercy, and who share God’s grace.

America is still a place where people dream, worship, serve, build, disagree, forgive, raise families, start businesses, help neighbors, and pursue a better future. Those freedoms are precious, and they are worth protecting—not only by our laws, but by our character and against people who desire to take them from our great nation.

Perhaps on this 250th birthday of America, our gift to our nation and to our God is to ask the question of ourselves, “What needs to change within us?” not merely “What needs to change around us?” For my Christian brothers and sisters, Biblical repentance is more than turning from an ungodly behavior—it is allowing Christ to reshape our minds, so we begin thinking like citizens of His Kingdom instead of merely citizens of this world. When Jesus preached, “Repent and believe the gospel,” He was inviting people into a completely new way of seeing reality, a new way of loving, and a new way of living under the rule of God’s Kingdom.

Happy 250th Birthday, America.

May God continue to bless this nation—not merely with prosperity or power, but with repentance, humility, wisdom, courage, and a renewed love for one another.

One of Your Patriots,
Rev. Dr. Marty Dunbar

What does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. -- Micah 6:8

Life has a way of shattering our expectations. Sometimes it doesn't just crack—it crushes. And in those crushing moments, we find ourselves asking the most ancient of human questions: Why?

The Bible of the Poor

Throughout the Middle Ages, magnificent stained glass windows adorned cathedral walls, telling stories to those who couldn't read. Scholars called them "the Bible of the poor." These windows weren't just decorative; they were transformational. They showed how God's light shines through brokenness, creating something beautiful from fragments.

But here's what's remarkable about stained glass: before it becomes art, it must be broken. Some pieces are crushed into fine powder—a technique called glass frit—heated and reformed into something new. The crushing isn't the end; it's part of the creation process.

Our lives mirror this ancient art form. We don't just experience cracks; sometimes we feel pulverized by circumstances we never saw coming.

When Good People Suffer

The book of Job confronts one of life's most troubling realities: sometimes faithful people suffer without explanation. Job wasn't being punished. He hadn't made terrible choices or betrayed anyone. Yet his world collapsed completely.

Imagine a successful businessman—let's call him David. At 55, he owns a thriving construction company, employs hundreds, has a loving family, and a sterling reputation. He's generous, faithful, and by all accounts, "one of the good guys."

Then everything unravels. A hurricane destroys major projects. Insurance disputes drag on. Lawsuits pile up. His wife receives a devastating medical diagnosis. One of his children battles addiction. Savings evaporate. Friends stop calling. People whisper that he must have done something wrong—that God must be punishing him.

David sits in a small apartment, a shadow of who he was, asking the same question Job asked thousands of years ago: "God, what did I do wrong?"

The Silence Between Chapters

The book of Job follows a striking pattern. Job loses everything in the first two chapters. Then for the next 35 chapters—the majority of the book—God is completely silent. Job questions, debates, grieves, rages, and wrestles. His friends offer theories. His wife suggests he curse God and die. But heaven remains quiet.

Finally, in chapter 38, God speaks. But He doesn't explain anything. He doesn't justify the suffering or provide the answers Job desperately seeks. Instead, God simply reveals Himself—His majesty, His power, His creative genius.

The biblical truth emerges: There is a difference between understanding God and trusting Him.

Sometimes faith means living through those silent chapters while trusting that God's voice is just around the corner. The miracle of Job wasn't that he got everything back at the end. The miracle was that he kept talking to God when nothing made sense.

Not All Suffering Is Catastrophic

We might not relate to Job's catastrophic losses, but we understand emotional crushing. Stress. Fear. Anxiety. Exhaustion. Frustration. Discouragement. These quiet sufferings may not make headlines, but they're just as real.

Consider Cooper, a ten-year-old boy whose ATV rolled over, crushing his leg. He spent a month and a half in the hospital, underwent 15 surgeries, coded three times, and ultimately lost his left leg. During one of those critical moments, when his oxygen level dropped to 30—a level where he shouldn't even have been conscious—Cooper sang at the top of his lungs: "Your Way's Better."

As doctors and nurses rushed him to the operating room, they joined him in song.

No one got an explanation for why this happened to a child. But in the midst of inexplicable suffering, there was hope. Hope that God wasn't finished with Cooper's story. Hope in the surgeon's steady hands. Hope that this ten-year-old would use his story for God's glory.

The family clung to Joshua 1:9: "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged. For the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go."

This is real faith—not the absence of pain, but trust in God's presence through it.

The Gift of Presence

In Job chapter 9, Job cries out for a mediator—someone who could bring him and God together. We know that mediator's name: Jesus.

God doesn't always give explanations, but He gives Himself. Sometimes His greatest gift isn't an answer; it's His presence. God doesn't author our wounds, but He refuses to waste them. He enters into our suffering and redeems what He never desired for us in the first place.

Not all pain has an explanation, but all pain has a Redeemer.

When Emotions Compete with Truth

Sister Abby's story illustrates this beautifully. A white pastor visited an all-Black church and sat next to a woman who asked him bluntly, "You got the stuff, white boy?" She meant: Do you have what it takes to preach?

She told him they'd sing for an hour, do testimonies, take an offering, and then—only then—would come the preaching. "We didn't come to get out. We came to have church."

Later, the pastor learned that Sister Abby's husband and two sons had been murdered at a bus stop. She had stage four cancer and couldn't afford treatment. Yet when tragedy struck, her response was simple: "Let's have church."

Most people think the sequence is: understand everything, then heal, then worship. But Job and Sister Abby teach us differently: grieve, then worship, then trust.

Faith is not pretending you're okay. Faith is trusting God while you're not okay.

The Abby Challenge

When life feels crushing, we can do three things:

First, pray to God what is still true. Before telling Him what hurts, tell Him what remains constant. He is still good. Still present. Christ is still risen. You're still loved. Heaven is still your home.

Second, worship before asking for answers. Spend five minutes in worship before seeking explanations. God matters more than the answers we seek.

Third, pray this simple prayer: "Lord, I don't understand, but You're still my God."

The Whole Design

Job couldn't see the whole design, but he trusted the Artist. He never received an explanation for his suffering. Sister Abby never got answers. Cooper's family never learned why. Some of us may never get explanations either.

But explanations don't save us. Jesus Christ saves us.

Like crushed glass heated and reformed into something beautiful, our broken pieces become part of a larger story. God's light shines through our fractures, creating beauty we couldn't imagine in our crushing moments.

The question isn't whether we'll face unexplainable pain. The question is: Will we trust the Artist when we can't see the design?

In the heart of Jerusalem's Hadassah Hospital stands one of the most remarkable artistic treasures in the world: twelve magnificent stained glass windows created by Marc Chagall, representing the twelve tribes of Israel. These windows are breathtaking masterpieces of color and light, drawing visitors from around the globe to marvel at their beauty.

But what makes these windows truly extraordinary isn't just their artistic brilliance. It's their story of redemption.

During the Six-Day War in 1967, Jordanian artillery fire struck the hospital, shattering portions of five of the twelve panes. The damage could have been the end of these irreplaceable works of art. Instead, when Chagall returned to restore them, he made a profound choice: he didn't simply erase the damage. He intentionally incorporated the broken fragments into the new design.

The broken glass became part of the beauty. The damage was not the end of the design.

This is more than an art restoration story. It's a powerful spiritual metaphor for how God works in our lives.

The Wounds We Never Asked For

The Chagall windows didn't do anything wrong. They were simply caught in the blast radius of forces beyond their control. Similarly, many of us carry wounds we never chose and never deserved. We've been caught up in someone else's anger, someone else's betrayal, someone else's sin.

These wounds often come from those closest to us: a spouse who broke their vows, a parent who failed to protect, a friend who violated trust, a business partner who chose greed over integrity, a spiritual leader who abused their position, or a sibling whose jealousy turned to cruelty.

These aren't wounds we created through our own failures. These are injuries inflicted upon us by others. And they hurt profoundly because we were created for relationship. Researchers have discovered that social rejection and relational betrayal activate the same neural pathways in our brains associated with physical pain. This explains why broken bones seem to heal faster than broken trust, why some people can still vividly recall betrayals from decades ago.

It's not weakness. It's reality. Relational wounds cut deep.

Joseph's Story: Caught in the Blast Radius

The story of Joseph in Genesis gives us one of Scripture's most powerful examples of someone caught in circumstances completely beyond his control. His brothers, consumed by jealousy, threw him into a pit and sold him into slavery. He was stripped of the coat his father had given him, torn from his home, and trafficked to Egypt.

Later, after faithful service in Potiphar's house, he was falsely accused and thrown into prison. He spent years forgotten in that darkness, waiting in silence. Joseph never received a dramatic miracle like Moses' burning bush. He had no supernatural sign assuring him that God was present. He simply endured, day after day, year after year.

Yet decades later, after an extraordinary rise to become second-in-command of all Egypt, after using that position to save countless lives during a devastating famine, Joseph faced his brothers again. They came to him terrified, expecting revenge for their betrayal.

His response reveals the heart of redemption: "You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people."

Living Between Betrayal and Redemption

Many people spiritually live between Genesis 37 (the chapter of Joseph's betrayal) and Genesis 50 (the chapter of his redemption). They remain stuck in the wound, never fully healed, never fully redeemed. The betrayal becomes their identity. The pit becomes their permanent address.

Psalm 105 looks back on Joseph's story and acknowledges the reality: "They bruised his feet with fetters, placed his neck in an iron collar." Scripture doesn't deny the pain. It doesn't offer spiritual platitudes or suggest Joseph should have just gotten over it. The suffering was real.

But the psalm continues: "Until the time came to fulfill his dreams, the Lord tested Joseph's character. Then Pharaoh sent for him and set him free."

God was working in what others meant for harm.

The Lie of "Everything Happens for a Reason"

Before we go further, we need to address a common but harmful misconception: the idea that "everything happens for a reason." This phrase, often offered as comfort, can actually compound suffering by suggesting God orchestrates every tragedy for some mysterious purpose.

Our faith doesn't teach this. The Bible doesn't teach this. Sometimes things happen simply because we live in a broken world where people make sinful choices and natural disasters occur. God doesn't cause every painful thing in our lives. He allows free will. He allows natural consequences. He allows a fallen world to be what it is.

But here's the profound truth: while God doesn't cause everything, He can redeem anything. He gives us permission through faith to let Him create beauty from the shards of our broken lives.

The Greatest Victory

Joseph's greatest victory wasn't getting out of prison. His greatest victory was keeping prison out of him. He refused to let bitterness take root. He refused to let betrayal define him. He refused to spend his life rehearsing the wound.

This is called rumination in psychology: playing the injury over and over in our minds until the wound becomes our identity. The betrayal takes up permanent residence in our thoughts. The past pain becomes our present reality.

But Joseph chose differently. He didn't deny what happened. He didn't pretend it didn't hurt. But he also didn't let it have the final word in his story.

A Modern Testimony of Redemption

One woman's story beautifully illustrates this principle. For 54 years, she carried anger, shame, and unforgiveness toward her dysfunctional parents. Even after their deaths, the wounds remained. Finally, after hearing a message about unrighteous anger and unforgiveness, she sought help from a Christian counselor.

A month into her healing journey, she decided to clean out a box of childhood memories she had packed 35 years earlier and never opened. At the bottom, she found a small silver lion statue inscribed with her grandfather's name. She had no memory of ever seeing it.

Immediately, the phrase "Lion of Judah" flooded her mind. The Holy Spirit spoke: "You don't have to be afraid because you have the Lion of Judah."

She discovered it was her grandfather's 124th birthday. The statue was an award for his founding work with a Lions Club camp for disabled children, the very camp where she had volunteered as a Girl Scout at age 12. Neither had known about the other's service there.

God had been orchestrating this moment of redemption for 35 years. He didn't erase all the wounds, but He redeemed them. Her identity shifted from the dysfunction of her family name to the Lion of Judah living within her.

The Cross: Ultimate Redemption of Betrayal

Joseph's story parallels Christ's in remarkable ways. Jesus experienced betrayal from those closest to Him. He was sold for silver. He was rejected, denied, falsely accused, stripped, beaten, and condemned. The cross was the ultimate act of humanity intending evil.

Yet God transformed it into salvation. The cross proves that God can take what was meant for destruction and transform it into redemption. This is the foundation of our faith: the resurrection hope that death and betrayal and sin do not have the final word.

The Artist Is Still Working

When Marc Chagall received the telegraph about the damaged windows, his response was simple: "You take care of the wounded soldiers, I'll take care of the windows."

He spent a year and a half in painstaking work restoring them. Today, when people view the Chagall windows, they don't look for the breaks. They see the whole beautiful story being told. The damage is part of the design now, woven into something magnificent.

That purple diamond shape in the Issachar window, with a small white speck where shrapnel pierced through? Chagall kept it. It's part of the beauty now.

This is our story. The wound is not the end. The pit is not the final chapter. God is still the artist, taking all our pain, all the brokenness, all the sin done to us and by us, and creating something beautiful.

We don't have to carry the weight of betrayal alone. We don't have to let bitterness define us. We don't have to pretend the wounds don't exist. Instead, we can give God permission through faith to incorporate even our broken pieces into His redemptive design.

The artist has never abandoned His work. And He's not finished with you yet.

There's a question that echoes through the corridors of human history, from the Garden of Eden to our present moment: "Where are you?" It's not a geographical inquiry but a profoundly relational one. Where is your heart? Where is your mind in relationship to your Creator?

This question finds us in unexpected moments—during prayer when our minds drift to mundane concerns, in seasons of darkness when we've lost our way, or in the aftermath of choices we wish we could unmake. God asks not because He doesn't know where we are, but because He wants us to know. He wants us to recognize where our hearts have wandered.

The Courage of Honest Faith

In the eighth century BC, the prophet Micah stood among his people during one of their darkest hours. The Assyrians were devastating the land, idols lined every street corner, and moral decay had infected society. Yet Micah's message wasn't primarily about everyone else's failures—it was about his own.

In a stunning display of vulnerability, this prophet—someone expected to have it all together—declared: "As for me, I watch and hope for the Lord. I wait for my Savior. My God will hear me. Do not gloat over me enemy. Though I have fallen, I will rise. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord will be my light. Because I have sinned against God, I will bear the Lord's wrath until he pleads my case and upholds my cause."

Three powerful words stand at the center of Micah's confession: "I have sinned."

No excuses. No blame-shifting. No rationalization. Just honest acknowledgment of his own brokenness.

This kind of honesty was rare then. It's even rarer now.

The Mirror We Avoid

We live in a culture remarkably skilled at diagnosing what's wrong with everyone else. We have opinions about politicians we disagree with, churches that don't measure up, cultural trends that disturb us, and people who don't meet our standards. Social media has given us all a microphone to broadcast our assessments of others' failures.

But where are the mirrors? Where is the willingness to examine our own hearts?

Revival has never started with people pointing fingers. It begins when God's people allow Him to examine our own hearts—when we repent, when we ask for forgiveness.

King David understood this when he prayed one of the most dangerous prayers in Scripture: "Search me, O God, and know my heart." He didn't ask God to search his spouse, his neighbors, or his political opponents. He asked God to search him.

The truth is simple but challenging: we cannot change what we refuse to acknowledge.

As long as someone else is always the problem, we'll never have to face our own brokenness. As long as we minimize our mistakes while maximizing those of others, we'll remain stuck in patterns that keep us from experiencing God's transforming grace.

When Repentance Opens the Door

Confession isn't the same as humiliation or embarrassment. Confession is liberation.

What we bring into the light can be transformed. Vulnerability becomes strength. Hurts can be healed. In the beautiful alchemy of God's grace, our brokenness becomes the very material through which His light can shine.

Consider stained glass. It's not beautiful because it's unbroken—it's beautiful because fragments have been gathered, arranged, and redeemed by light shining through them. Pieces that would be meaningless in a box in the attic become breathtaking when light touches them.

The same is true for our lives. Grace has to touch our sin and brokenness for us to be healed. What stays hidden cannot be healed.

True repentance is a movement of the heart that involves three steps:

1. Owning it: "This is on me. I messed up. I'm struggling. I'm broken."
2. Confessing it: "Lord, I have to tell you this."
3. Surrendering it: "Lord, I need to put this in your hands. I cannot carry it any longer."

When we surrender, God takes over. Not always instantly, sometimes gradually, but truly. Grace does what shame cannot do. Grace restores while shame isolates. Grace heals and sets free while shame says to hide. Grace says, "Come home."

The Father Who Runs

Jesus captured this truth perfectly in the parable of the prodigal son. A young man wasted his inheritance, ending up so desperate he ate with pigs. When he finally decided to return home, he rehearsed an apology, hoping his father might let him work as a servant.

But before he could deliver his speech, his father ran to him. In a culture where grown men didn't run, this father sprinted toward his son's brokenness, toward his failure, toward his shame, and embraced him before a single explanation was given.

This is the heart of God—watching for you, knowing your heart, running faster than any guilt you carry.

The goal of repentance is never punishment. It's restoration.

Rising From Darkness

Micah's confidence is breathtaking: "Though I have fallen, I will rise. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord will be my light."

Not "I might rise." Not "I hope to rise." Not "I'll try harder to rise."

I will rise.

Micah doesn't deny the darkness. He just refuses to believe that darkness wins. And in Christ, we too can refuse to believe that darkness has the final word.

This is the tension of the Christian life—we fall, but God lifts us. We sit in darkness, but the Lord becomes our light. We carry consequences, but grace carries us through them.

God's discipline is never abandonment. His correction is always accompanied by His presence.

Your Story Isn't Over

Perhaps you're sitting in darkness right now. Maybe it's regret that won't release its grip. Maybe it's grief that physically aches in your chest. Maybe you're dealing with difficult consequences from past choices, and even though you've asked for forgiveness, you're still navigating the fallout.

The eighth-century prophet dares to speak into your moment: "The Lord will be my light." Not a light among many options, but my light—the light.

Brokenness might explain where you are right now, but it does not determine where God can take you. Your story isn't finished. The fragments of your life can become a beautiful window through which God's light shines.

The question remains: Where are you?

And the answer God offers is simple: Get back up. Confess. Surrender. Rise.

The Father is already running toward you.

There's something profound about stained glass windows. Stand before them in the dim light of morning, and they appear dark, almost lifeless—just pieces of colored glass held together by lead. But when sunlight streams through them, everything changes. Suddenly, the fragments come alive with color and meaning, telling stories that have inspired generations.

Our lives are remarkably similar to those windows.

The Garden Where Everything Shattered

The story of humanity begins in a garden—a place of perfect fellowship, unblemished trust, and complete transparency. Adam and Eve walked with God in the cool of the day. They didn't wonder where He was or whether He would provide. There was no shame, no fear, no separation between Creator and creation. Just pure, unadulterated love.

But true love always contains a choice.

The serpent's temptation wasn't really about forbidden fruit. It was about something far more insidious: the suggestion that God was withholding something good. That true freedom and wisdom could be found apart from Him. That life works better when we're in charge.

And in that moment of choice, everything fractured.

The First Hiding Place

What happened next reveals something crucial about the nature of sin and brokenness. The immediate consequence wasn't divine punishment—it was hiding. Adam and Eve, who had walked openly with God, suddenly found themselves sewing fig leaves together and ducking behind trees.

The first fracture in humanity wasn't rebellion of the hands; it was distrust in the heart.

We don't sew fig leaves together anymore, but we still hide. We hide behind busy schedules and impressive accomplishments. We hide behind humor, strong opinions, or carefully curated social media profiles. We pretend everything is fine when inside we feel fractured, carrying pieces we're afraid to show anyone.

The Question That Changes Everything

But here's where the story takes an unexpected turn. When God came walking in the garden, He didn't thunder with judgment. He didn't demand an accounting of their actions. Instead, He asked a simple question:

"Where are you?"

This wasn't a question of location—God knew exactly where they were. This was a question of relationship. Why are you hiding? Why are you running from me? Whatever you've done, I'm still here. Come back to me.

When humanity shattered fellowship with God, God came looking anyway.

This is one of the first and greatest revelations of God's character in all of Scripture. Humanity runs from God, but God moves toward humanity. He never abandons the fractured pieces.

The Real Problem Beneath the Surface

Here's something we often miss: sin rarely starts with behavior. It starts much earlier, with suspicion of God. With distrust. With a wrong understanding of His character. With the assumption that obedience is restriction rather than protection.

Eve's problem didn't begin when she took the fruit. It began when she started to doubt God's goodness, when she began to believe that life existed outside His care, that He was holding something back.

We face the same temptation today. We think: "If I could just work a little harder, manage things a little better, solve one more problem, then everything will be okay." We trust ourselves instead of trusting God. We want life on our own terms.

And that's when the fractures begin.

The Artist Who Works With Broken Glass

But here's the beautiful truth woven throughout Scripture: God is still the artist.

Stained glass begins as various pieces—some beautiful, some seemingly worthless. But the artist takes those pieces and forms beauty. In life, we see fragments. God sees the finished window.

The longer we follow Jesus, the more we realize that everyone carries broken pieces. Some are beautiful, some are painful, some we never want to talk about. But God isn't frightened by any of our pieces. He doesn't run away. His grace shines through the fragments, and beauty begins to emerge.

Light Changes Everything

Before light shines through a stained glass window, the glass is dark and unimpressive. You can't see the image it's meant to display. The same is true spiritually.

Without Christ, sin distorts our vision. Shame dominates our understanding. Our true identity remains hidden. Fear makes us hide. Darkness seems to win.

But with Christ, those shattered pieces become part of our testimony—the beautiful story God is telling through our lives. The fractures don't disappear, but they become part of something greater. Light transforms everything.

The Invitation to Stop Hiding

Maybe you're carrying fractured pieces right now. Perhaps the fracture isn't some huge moral failure—maybe it's disappointment, hurt that you couldn't share with anyone, regret over words you can't take back, or fear of what others might think.

The question we must ask ourselves is this: What am I hiding behind? What's my fig leaf? Where have I stopped trusting God?

The invitation is to stop hiding from the One who can actually heal us. To come into the light. To answer God's question—"Where are you?"—with honesty rather than evasion.

A Summer Creed

The prophet Micah offers us these powerful words that can become our declaration:

"For though I fall, I will rise again. Though I sit in darkness, the Lord will be my light."

This is the promise for every fractured life. We will fall—that's part of the human story since the garden. But falling isn't the end. Rising is part of the story too. And even when we sit in darkness, surrounded by our broken pieces, the Lord becomes our light.

The Ongoing Story

The Bible's primary story is God seeking relationship with us through Jesus Christ. From Genesis to Revelation, it's the story of God asking, "Where are you?" and seeking reconciliation, not annihilation.

Every person has fractures. But we also have the possibility of stained glass stories—lives where broken pieces become beautiful when God's light shines through them.

We have an Artist who never stops working with broken glass. We have a Light that never stops shining through fractured people.

And that makes all the difference.

There's something exhilarating about the idea of adventure. The word itself conjures images of mountain peaks waiting to be conquered, uncharted territories begging to be explored, and challenges that push us beyond our comfort zones. But what if the greatest adventure of all isn't found in climbing Mount Everest or running a marathon? What if it's found in something far more profound—following Jesus Christ and living out the mission He's given us?

Faith as an Ongoing Journey

Faith in Jesus isn't meant to be a destination where we arrive and then settle in comfortably. It's not about reaching a spiritual checkpoint where we can say, "I got saved. I go to church. I know some Bible verses. I volunteered once." and then coast for the rest of our lives. Instead, faith is designed to be an ongoing adventure—one that constantly moves us outward toward people, toward purpose, toward mission.

The journey with Jesus always leads us somewhere beyond ourselves. It's an adventure that starts with someone brave enough to believe in Christ, where God calls ordinary people to step out before they have all the details and all the answers. It's a journey where the Holy Spirit provides strength to keep going when life gets hard and uncertain.

The Great Commission: A Call, Not a Suggestion

In Matthew 28:18-20, Jesus delivers what we know as the Great Commission: "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."

These weren't casual words spoken in passing. These were among the final instructions Jesus gave before ascending to heaven. When someone knows they're about to leave for a long time, their final words carry tremendous weight. Jesus didn't tell His followers to build impressive buildings, ensure their own comfort, or argue endlessly about peripheral issues. His command was simple and direct: Go.

In the original Greek, the context suggests Jesus was saying, "As you are going." In other words, as you live, as you move through your daily existence, as you work and travel and simply exist in this world—make disciples. This isn't about a single dramatic mission trip (though those are valuable). It's about living life on mission 24/7.

A World Still Desperate for Truth

The urgency Jesus communicated two thousand years ago remains just as relevant today. People are still lost, still anxious, still searching for truth. In fact, one could argue that people today are even more desperate, trying to fill their spiritual emptiness with success, addiction, relationships, politics, money, approval, and countless distractions.

But here's the incredible news: the church still has the answer. That answer is Jesus Christ. The solution to humanity's deepest needs hasn't changed, and neither has the mission to share it.

When Faith Becomes Self-Centered

One of the most dangerous traps in Christianity is when faith becomes all about us. "Where's my blessing? Where's my breakthrough? What about my comfort, my preferences, my schedule, my plans?" But Jesus never called us to a self-centered faith. He called us to surrender our lives and move outward toward others.

Consider the difference between the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea. The Sea of Galilee is full of life because water flows both in and out. The Dead Sea is dead because water only flows in—nothing flows out. Similarly, some Christians are spiritually stagnant because everything flows in (attending services, receiving teaching, learning Bible knowledge) but nothing flows out.

Healthy faith reproduces itself. We are called to be disciples who make disciples. Healthy faith serves, gives, speaks, and moves toward people rather than away from them.

You Don't Have to Be a Pastor to Be on Mission

Here's a liberating truth: you don't have to be a pastor, go to seminary, or become a professional preacher to be on mission. Most of the people in your life will never hear a famous preacher speak. But you know what they will see? Your life.

They will watch how you treat your spouse, how you respond under pressure, how you parent, how you forgive, how you handle pain, how you talk to people daily, how you serve and love others. Your life may be the loudest sermon anyone ever hears.

Think about the people who have most impacted your spiritual journey. Chances are, many of them never stood behind a pulpit. They were coaches, volunteers, small group leaders, praying grandparents, youth workers, teachers, and parents—people who simply lived a sent lifestyle.

You might think, "I just serve in kids' ministry" or "I'm just a greeter" or "All I can do is pray." But these aren't small things. Every role in the mission of God matters. Heaven sees every single act of service and cheers us on.

Purpose Is Discovered in Obedience

Many people spend their entire lives asking, "What's my purpose? What does God want me to do?" Meanwhile, God has already made it clear: love Him, love people, share the gospel, make disciples, live faithfully, and use the gifts He's given you.

Purpose isn't usually found in one giant lightning bolt moment. Most of the time, purpose is revealed one obedient "yes" at a time. Abraham had to leave before he saw his promise. Peter had to step out of the boat before he walked on water. The disciples had to drop their nets before they saw Jesus's miracles.

Some of us are waiting for God to show us the entire blueprint while He's simply asking for our next small "yes."

Someone reading this already knows what God has been nudging them toward. Maybe it's forgiving someone who hurt you, starting to serve somewhere, talking to a coworker about your faith, leading your family spiritually, going on a mission trip, starting a Bible study, or simply living your faith out loud. But obedience is scary because it costs us something—comfort, control, pride, security.

Availability Matters More Than Ability

In Isaiah 6, when God asks, "Whom shall I send?" Isaiah responds, "Here I am. Send me." Notice that Isaiah didn't ask for all the details. He didn't inquire about salary, benefits, difficulty level, or duration. He simply made himself available.

Availability matters more than ability. God specializes in using ordinary, unequipped people. Moses had a stutter. David was overlooked. Peter was impulsive. Paul had a questionable past. Timothy was too young. God has always used imperfect people who were willing to say yes.

If you're imperfect, you're exactly the kind of person God loves to work through.

Never Sent Alone

Here's the promise that makes the mission possible: Jesus says, "Surely I am with you always." God sends us on mission, but He never sends us alone. In Acts 1:8, Jesus promises, "You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you, and you will be my witnesses."

The Holy Spirit empowers ordinary believers to live extraordinary lives. We don't have enough strength on our own—eventually, our own strength runs out. But the Holy Spirit gives us power to keep loving, keep forgiving, keep serving, keep enduring through tough times, and keep witnessing even when people say no repeatedly.

The Adventure of a Lifetime

This great adventure of faith was never supposed to stop with us. One day, we will stand before God, and in that moment, success won't be measured by social media followers, bank account balances, status, or applause. God will simply ask: Were you faithful with what I gave you? Did you love Me? Did you love My people? Did you obey? Did you carry the gospel well? Did you live a sent life?

Here's the beautiful part: this great adventure ends in victory. We already know the ending. So whether you need to stay the course or get back on course, keep running, keep trusting, keep serving, keep loving.

And most of all, keep saying yes.

Church Conference, Goals, Partnerships, Budget & Building Construction Schedule
This past Sunday’s Church Conference was a powerful reminder that God continues to move in and through our church family in incredible ways. As we gathered together, we celebrated life change, discipleship, servant leadership, and the exciting future God is placing before us.

We celebrated 3 confirmands taking an important next step in their faith journey, 1 baptism, and the welcoming of 7 new members into the life of the church — including our confirmands. These moments are more than numbers. They are stories of grace, commitment, belonging, and the continuing work of the Holy Spirit in our congregation.

We also commissioned 5 new Stephen Ministers, individuals who have answered God’s call to walk alongside others with compassion, presence, and care during difficult seasons of life. Their ministry reflects the heart of Christ and strengthens the care-centered mission of our church.

One of the highlights of the evening was our Ministry Recap Video. If you were unable to attend — or even if you were there — we strongly encourage you to take time to watch it. The video captures so many of the meaningful moments, ministries, mission opportunities, and transformed lives that define who we are as a church. Sometimes we become so busy serving that we forget to pause and celebrate all that God is doing among us.

Watch the Ministry Recap Video (Click Here) 

Flex for the Mission
This year, we have one all-church goal. It will be “Flex for the Mission.” As construction begins and our campus experiences temporary changes, we want to embrace a spirit of flexibility, unity, and mission-mindedness. While some routines and comforts may shift for a season, every adjustment becomes an opportunity to serve others, welcome people well, and remember that we are building for future generations of ministry.

We believe the way we walk through this season together will be just as important as the renovations themselves. By staying focused on the mission of connecting people to Jesus, we can turn temporary inconvenience into lasting Kingdom impact.

Building Wisely for the Future
During the Church Conference, we also shared more information regarding joining an association of autonomous Methodist churches known as the Methodist Collegiate Church (MCC).

Your leadership believes it is important that we remain connected—not to a denomination, but to a network of independent, Wesleyan methodist churches that share our theology, mission, and values. The MCC allows churches like ours to remain fully independent while still benefiting from connection, support, accountability, leadership development, clergy relationships, and shared ministry resources.

This partnership model gives us what many churches need most in today’s ministry landscape: connection without control.

The MCC provides a path that protects our independence and local governance of our church while strengthening our future through trusted Wesleyan partnerships.

We encourage you to learn more about the MCC partnership opportunity by visiting our information page and watching the video explanation that walks through the vision, structure, and reasons behind this recommendation.

* MCC Information Page
* Video Explanation

Your Generosity: Giving, Budget & Communication Updates
Since the last State of the Church update, your generosity has caught up to the needs of ministry.  Thank you for giving and all the extra mile giving.  Generosity and cash flow continue to move upward and if we finish strong, we will be in a great place financially going into the 2026/27 fiscal year on July 1.

Your Core Leadership Team (CLT) is expected to adopt the 2026/27 budget during its June meeting. And that information will be shared with the larger church community, by posting it on a new webpage coming in July -- www.jwchurch.org/your-giving

As part of our continued commitment to transparency and communication, this dedicated webpage on our church website will house quarterly financial updates, important financial documents, and other stewardship-related information for our faithful givers and church family.

Building Update: God Is Big Enough
Phase 1 will launch in June (1st Sunday in Worship Center June 7):
* Renovation and updating of the Sanctuary
* Renovation of the Welcome Center
* New Chiller
* Prayer Chapel External Wall Fix
* Creation of a new playground
* Parking lot upgrades

While we are excited about the progress ahead, please note that all dates and timelines below remain subject to change should construction, permitting, weather, or unforeseen issues arise.

Current Team Partners
* Architect: Mark W. Todd Architects
* Engineer: ASEI Engineers, Inc.
* Acoustic Consultant: Wade Worley
* General Contractor: Axis Builders, LLC

Pre-construction Activity & Timing as of May 19, 2026
* April 22 & May 5 — Meetings with Axis on AIA contract documents
* April 27 — Received Axis proof of insurance documents
* April 27 — Exterior consultant/inspector inspected Prayer Chapel walls
* April 29 — Wade Worley provided in-person review of acoustics report
* April 29 — Decision made to divide permit application into interior and exterior applications
* May 1 — Axis received final drawings from MWTA
* May 11 — Interior permit application submitted to Harris County Fire Code
* May 11 — Sanctuary carpet selected by consensus of 6 women and 4 men
* May 14 — Proposed demolition areas sampled for hazardous materials
* May 19 — Sub-contractors submitted final pricing to Axis
* May 19 — Hazardous materials report confirmed no asbestos
* May 20 – September 3 — Procurement phase (Axis schedule)
* May 20 — Chiller ordered
* May 28 — Submit GMP to JW with follow-up meeting May 29
* June 1 — Submit GMP documentation to TMF
* June 2 — Expected county permit approval (Axis schedule currently projects June 19)
* June 4 — Submit exterior permit application to county
* June 5 — Expected approval from TMF
* June 5 — Execute contract with Axis

Remodel/Construction
* June 12 — Begin mobilization by Axis
* August 3 – August 31 — Parking lot work
* September 7 — Playground completion projected by Axis
* September 7 week — Install chiller
* September 17 — Sanctuary projected ready for worship
* October 9 — Welcome Center and corridor projected complete
* October 9 – November 4 — Cleanup, final inspections, and punch list work

As we move into this next season together, we remain grateful for your prayers, generosity, patience, and faithfulness. The mission of the church continues to grow because people continue saying “yes” to Jesus, to service, and to one another.

There's something profoundly unsettling about standing at the edge of the unknown. Whether it's a life decision, a career change, or a spiritual calling, that moment when certainty ends and trust must begin can feel overwhelming. Yet this is precisely where the adventure of faith comes alive.

When God Interrupts Comfort

The story of Abram in Genesis 12:1-4 presents us with one of Scripture's most dramatic examples of faith in action. God's instructions were simple yet staggering: "Leave your native country, your relatives and your father's family and go to the land that I will show you."

Imagine Abram's situation in modern terms. Picture someone with a settled life—a house, a career, established routines, and deep community ties. They know where the grocery store is, how their days will unfold, and what tomorrow will likely bring. Then God interrupts all of that predictability with a call to leave everything familiar behind.

This is the pattern we discover throughout Scripture: God rarely calls people forward by making them comfortable. Instead, He often asks us to leave the very paths we find most comforting. This isn't cruelty—it's invitation. Maturing faith begins precisely where our control ends.

The Tension Between Certainty and Obedience

Here's the challenge many of us face: we want God to bless our current path, but God frequently calls us to leave that path altogether. We've been trained by our culture to optimize everything, to demand clarity before obedience, and to require full understanding before surrender.

The Holy Spirit rarely works that way.

Consider what Hebrews 11:8 tells us about Abraham: "Abraham obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going." This wasn't foolishness or abandoning reason. It was refusing to make certainty his god.

Faith is not the absence of questions. It's movement while questions still exist. It's trusting that God is leading us somewhere good even when we can't see the destination. Biblical faith consistently requires movement before clarity arrives.

The Airport Analogy

Think about standing at an airport gate. You've checked in, you have your boarding pass, and you're waiting. When your group is called, you have a choice: step onto the walkway toward the plane, or remain seated in the terminal. You could theoretically stand there forever if they'd let you.

This is how God's call works in our lives. Eventually, God says it's time to board—not just time to believe, but time to move. The great adventure doesn't begin when we understand everything; it begins when we trust God enough to take the next step.

Some people spend their entire spiritual lives watching others obey, watching others take risks in Jesus' name, watching others walk the moving sidewalk while they remain stationary. Their faith stays theoretical rather than becoming transformational.

The Pattern Throughout Scripture

The Bible overflows with stories of people called by faith into the unknown:

• Moses returned to Egypt after building a completely new life for forty years
• Joshua crossed the Jordan when everyone else seemed content wandering in the wilderness
• Peter stepped out of the boat at Jesus' invitation
• Esther risked everything in the palace for her people
• The disciples dropped their fishing nets without knowing where they were going
• Paul changed his travel plans repeatedly as the Spirit redirected him
• Mary surrendered her entire future when she said yes to God

Not one of them received a detailed map. Not one avoided the need for faith. They all had to trust that God was moving them toward something they couldn't yet see.

Delayed Obedience: The Silent Killer of Adventure

We live in an uncertain world, which creates within us an addiction to control and predictability. This often leads to delayed obedience—we postpone, rationalize, and overanalyze until we never actually move.

There's a crucial difference between being interested in something and being committed to it. Many people say, "I'd love to start that" or "I'd love to follow God more deeply," but remain interested in something other than actual change.

Abram didn't merely admire his calling. He committed to it and obeyed it. At seventy-five years old, when God promised to make him into a great nation, he had every reason to question the logistics. But he moved anyway.

As 2 Corinthians 5:7 reminds us, "We live by believing, not by seeing."

What's Your Next Step?

The question isn't whether God is calling you—He is. The question is: what next great adventure of faith is God inviting you into?

For some, the next adventure is simply faith itself—finally trusting Jesus as Savior after years of observing Christianity from the sidelines.

For others, it's transformation—allowing Jesus to become not just Savior but Lord, surrendering areas of life we've kept under our own control.

For some, it's reconciliation—taking that delayed conversation, extending forgiveness we've been withholding, or receiving forgiveness for ourselves.

For others, it's serving—finally using the gifts God has given rather than sitting on them while warming a church seat.

For some, it's generosity—giving in a way that moves beyond comfort into genuine trust.

For others, it's healing—actually giving our wounds to God rather than just surviving them.

And for some, it's calling—finally stepping toward what God has been whispering despite the fear talking us out of it.

The Promise in the Unknown

God told Abram, "I will bless you... and you will be a blessing to others." Faith isn't just about personal fulfillment—it's about kingdom impact. The promise God has for you sits on the other side of trust, perhaps just one simple step away.

Your deepest experiences with God, the greatest adventures of faith you'll ever have, happen on the other side of obedience. When the Spirit says go, that's when spiritual power becomes real in your life.

Your Assignment

Consider these two questions this week:

1. Where is God calling me to trust Him more?
2. What step have I been afraid to take?

Write down your answers. Pray over them. Then take one concrete step toward obedience this week—just one simple step.

The great adventure awaits, but it requires boarding the plane. God is calling. Will you move?

Life's greatest adventures rarely begin in isolation. Whether it's a day hike through mountain trails or an extended expedition into unknown territory, preparation is essential. We pack water bottles, snacks, flashlights, and maps. Parents with young children know this especially well—the legendary diaper bag contains everything from wipes to band-aids, prepared for any contingency.

But what about the greatest adventure of all—the journey of faith?

Following Jesus doesn't come with a detailed roadmap. Each person's journey is unique, shaped by individual choices and divine calling. Yet while the specifics differ, one truth remains constant: the most significant spiritual adventures often begin with someone who believed in us before we believed in ourselves.

The Foundation of Faith

In 2 Timothy 1:5-7, Paul writes to young Timothy with profound recognition: "I remember your genuine faith. For you share the faith that first filled your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice. And I know that same faith continues strong in you."

This passage reveals a powerful truth: Timothy's remarkable faith didn't originate with him. It was first visible in his grandmother, then his mother, before becoming his own. Lois and Eunice packed Timothy's spiritual bags long before he embarked on his own journey. They modeled faith, shared the map, and demonstrated what trusting God looked like in real time.

Some people are remembered for the adventures they take. Others are remembered because they helped someone else begin one.

This distinction matters profoundly. We live inside a beautiful, epic story—not a random existence, but a divine narrative of creation, communion, grace, redemption, and restoration. No one lives in a random story. We've been graciously invited into the ongoing account God is telling throughout all of history.

Faith: Caught Before It's Taught

When we desperately want clarity, God often simply gives us a call. When we crave certainty, He invites us to trust. When we demand a detailed map, Jesus says what He said to His first disciples: "Follow me."

Not "Here's a map—see if you can make it on your own." Just "Follow me."

This is where faith forms—in the tension between our desire for control and God's invitation to trust.

Faith is transmitted before it is chosen. Timothy's faith didn't start with his decision; it started with exposure. He watched someone believe and navigate faith before he believed himself. He experienced faith before he owned it.

Think about how children absorb anxiety when parents panic, or peace when parents trust. Faith operates similarly. Most people don't discover faith in isolation. We inherit courage to believe by watching someone in our extended family, our community, our church stay faithful through their own journey.

The saying holds true: faith is more often caught than taught.

The Invisible Foundation

Consider a beautiful building—perhaps a historic sanctuary with stunning stained glass windows casting colorful light across wooden pews. People photograph the architecture, the artistry, the aesthetic beauty. No one takes pictures of the foundation.

We don't celebrate concrete and rebar. Yet without that foundation, everything collapses.

Lois and Eunice weren't in the spotlight, but they were the structure. They were the foundation. Long before faith became personal for Timothy, it was visible in these faithful women.

Proverbs 22:6 instructs: "Direct your children onto the right path and when they are older, they will not leave it." This isn't merely a promise that guarantees outcomes if we follow a formula. Rather, it reveals a principle: faith lived in one generation creates an echo in the next generation.

Courage That Shapes Generations

In the first-century Christian context, Lois and Eunice lived under tremendous pressure. There were no guarantees, no cultural support, no Christian nation to protect them. Their faith wasn't trendy or popular—it was literally dangerous.

Yet their spiritual courage shaped Timothy's generation and countless generations since.

The great adventure of faith doesn't start with a dramatic leap. It starts with a life that refuses to quit trusting God. It requires courage and boldness—not the loud, attention-seeking kind, but the confident, unashamed variety. It demands quiet consistency when drifting would be easier and compromising more comfortable.

Hebrews 11:1 defines faith this way: "Faith shows the reality of what we hope for. It is the evidence of things we cannot see."

Evidence of things we cannot see. The foundation. The structure beneath the visible life.

Beyond Personal Success

Here's a soul-searching question: What if your greatest act of faith is not what God does through you, but what God does through someone because of you?

This reframes everything. Lois and Eunice didn't raise their son and grandson merely for worldly success. They raised them to be faithful disciples. That's why we're reading about Timothy two thousand years later.

Our world constantly pressures us to equip the next generation for success—career achievement, financial security, social status. But the higher calling is raising sons and daughters to be faithful disciples. That's where true identity, calling, purpose, and mission reside. And paradoxically, that's where genuine success is found.

The biblical progression is clear: Lois, then Eunice, then Timothy, then Timothy becomes a disciple-maker and church leader, creating a generational ripple that continues today.

God builds His kingdom through generations, not just individuals. He uses parents, mentors, and spiritual mothers and fathers to create chains of faith that span centuries.

Many people want their faith to go viral. God wants our faith to go generational.

The Candle Illustration

Imagine two candles—one tall, one short. We might assume the tall candle represents the mature believer who has journeyed far in faith, while the short candle represents the next generation still growing.

But flip that assumption. The shorter candle represents those of us who have been burning for a while. We've spent years seeking to be the light of the world. Some days we've done well; other days, not so much.

The taller candle represents the next generation with their great adventure still ahead. They will go places we've never been, meet people we'll never know, impact lives in ways we cannot imagine.

Our calling isn't to stand on a pedestal and say, "Watch me burn." Our calling is to take the light God has given us and light someone else's flame.

The beautiful truth? When one candle lights another, nothing is lost. The first flame burns just as brightly. That's the mathematics of kingdom multiplication.

Your Assignment

Every great journey has a starting line. Was yours someone else's faithfulness? A mother praying? A grandmother believing? A mentor showing up? A model of quiet, consistent faith?

First assignment: Become someone else's starting point. This takes time—not just a moment, but sustained investment. It's a wonderful calling God extends to each of us.

Second assignment: Identify your Lois and Eunice. Who shaped your faith? Have you thanked them? If they're still living, reach out. If they've gone to be with the Lord, thank Him for them.

We need to thank our spiritual mothers for how they've transformed us. That's how God works—through faithful people who pack the bags for someone else's great adventure.

The Echo Continues

The great adventure starts with a call to invest in others. May our faith echo through the generations. May we light candles that will burn long after ours have dimmed. May we be remembered not just for our own journey, but for helping someone else begin theirs.

That's the adventure worth taking. That's the legacy worth leaving. That's the faith worth transmitting to the next generation.

We live in an age of endless voices. Every scroll, every click, every notification brings a new message vying for our attention. But have you ever stopped to consider what all this consumption is actually doing to you? Not just what you're learning, but who you're becoming?

The Algorithm of the Soul

Here's something fascinating: social media algorithms work exactly like high school math. They're equations, pure and simple. But instead of solving for X, they're solving for one thing only: what will keep your attention the longest?

The math is straightforward. A like has a small value. A view counts for a bit more. But a reply? That's where the real value kicks in. And when you get into back-and-forth conversations—especially arguments—the value becomes exponential. Over time, these algorithms learn you. They discover what keeps you engaged, what makes you pause, what triggers your emotions. Then they feed you more of it.

Not because it's true. Because it works.

Let that sink in. Just because you see something repeatedly, just because it's confirmed by more and more people, doesn't mean it's true. It just means it's effective at capturing your attention.

The Brain's Hidden Framework

The human brain operates on a specific pattern, and the algorithms exploit it masterfully. It goes like this: focus, authority, tribe, feeling.

First, something captures your focus—a novelty, a shocking headline, an intriguing image. You stop scrolling. Then your brain asks about authority: "Is this true? Who says so?" Next comes the tribe: "Do people like me agree with this? Look at all these people who think the way I think." Finally, you feel it. The emotion washes over you, and in that moment, you've been shaped.

This pattern repeats thousands of times a day. Each instance is a micro-compliance—a small, almost unnoticeable "yes" to whatever has captured your attention. These tiny yeses accumulate, and before you know it, they've transformed you into something. We don't drift into who we're becoming. We micro-comply our way there.

The critical question becomes: What are you saying yes to?

A Different Algorithm

In John 15:4-5, Jesus offers a completely different pathway: "Remain in me, and I will remain in you. For a branch cannot produce fruit if it is severed from the vine, and you cannot be fruitful unless you remain in me. For apart from me, you can do nothing."

Notice what Jesus doesn't say. He doesn't describe discipleship as Christian content consumption. You can listen to Jesus content all day long and never become like Jesus. Many people do exactly that.

Jesus understands the framework of the human brain—He created it, after all. But instead of exploiting it for engagement, He offers transformation through connection. Not focus on outrage. Not authority based on the loudest voice. Not tribal division. Not reactive feelings.

Just this: "Remain in me."

That's a thousand small yeses throughout your day. A thousand moments of micro-compliance to the presence and ways of Jesus. This is how we're shaped into Christ-likeness.

Three Truths About Formation

Jesus reveals several key insights about how transformation actually works.

Formation happens through proximity. The word "remain" means to stay, to dwell, to abide. We don't become like someone we occasionally connect with or casually listen to. We become like the one we stay close to, the one we talk with, the one we're in relationship with.

Formation happens through practice. In Luke 6:40, Jesus says, "Students are not greater than their teacher, but the student who is fully trained will become like the teacher." This isn't inspirational language—it's imitation language. Discipleship isn't admiration; it's imitation.

Formation happens through repetition. What repeats, remains. What remains, shapes or reshapes. This doesn't happen randomly. It happens on purpose, through intentional, repeated exposure and practice.

The Formation Station

Here's the challenging truth: formation happens in a place, around people who are doing the same thing. The local church is meant to be this formation station.

Think about how many tables you're eating at in a given week. You listen here, then there, then somewhere else. You open your phone and consume content from a dozen different sources. Without realizing it, you're eating at ten different tables but planted at none of them.

You cannot be deeply formed in a place you're never fully committed to. Formation requires investment—time, presence, participation.

The world forms through reaction. The church forms through transformation. While the world's algorithm focuses on chaos, elevates cultural authority, divides into tribes, and generates reactive feelings, the church should focus on Jesus Christ, submit to scriptural authority, unite in the people of God, and facilitate transformation through the Spirit.

A Modern Parable

Imagine a young person trying to figure out life. He's listening to leadership podcasts, financial advice, spiritual content, motivational speakers. Every voice sounds right. Every voice promises something. So he samples them all—a little from here, a little from there.

For a while, it feels like growth. But the foundation isn't strong enough. Over time, confusion sets in. Contradictions emerge. Fatigue follows. Every voice pulls in a different direction.

One day, alone with his thoughts, the realization hits: "I've been listening to everything, but I don't know who I'm becoming."

Then, almost by accident, he starts showing up somewhere consistently. Not perfectly at first, but he keeps coming. Something different begins to happen. It's not just teaching—it's deeper. People know his name, ask about his life, challenge him, pray for him. He begins to see who he truly is through the lens of grace and truth. He opens Scripture, serves others, builds relationships.

Slowly, something shifts. His thoughts change. His desires change. His reactions change. One day he realizes: "I'm not just learning new things. I'm actually becoming someone different."

Why? Because he found a place that reshaped his yeses.

The Goal Isn't Information

The goal isn't to hear about Jesus. The goal is to become like Jesus. That requires more than content consumption. It requires a place where Jesus doesn't just get talked about but where Jesus forms us.

You're saying yes to something every single day, every single moment. The question is: what are those yeses forming you into? Are you alert to what's shaping your soul?

We don't become like Jesus through one big moment. We become like Jesus through a thousand small yeses, repeated daily, in community with others on the same journey.

What you invest in shapes you. Where you plant yourself matters. The voices you listen to most will determine who you become.

Choose your formation station wisely.

When NASA's Artemis II mission traveled over 238,000 miles to loop around the moon and return safely to Earth, every fraction of a degree mattered. The spacecraft couldn't simply aim in the moon's general direction and hope for the best. Instead, it followed a carefully calculated trajectory, accounting for where the moon would be—not where it currently was—as both celestial bodies moved through space at incredible speeds.

A tiny deviation at the beginning of the journey would seem insignificant at first. But over that vast distance, even the smallest drift would result in missing the destination entirely, leaving the spacecraft lost in the blackness of space.

This precise navigation mirrors a profound spiritual truth: the greatest danger to our faith isn't dramatic rejection of God, but slow, almost imperceptible spiritual drift.

The Reality of Spiritual Drift

Drift doesn't announce itself. It doesn't ask permission. It simply happens when we become unintentional about our spiritual lives, going through the motions without purposeful direction.

Consider how physical drift works. In 2003, someone might have been in decent shape, but with a full-time job, small children, and the demands of life, healthy habits slowly disappeared. A few years later, they found themselves twenty pounds heavier than ever before—not because they intended to gain weight, but because their daily patterns told a different story than their intentions.

Our bodies reflect the patterns of our lives, not our intentions. The same is true spiritually.

We can have the best intentions about our relationship with God, our character development, and our spiritual growth. But if our actual patterns—what we consume, who we spend time with, what we prioritize—don't align with those intentions, we'll drift away from where we want to be.

The Apostle Paul's Warning

In Colossians 2:6-8, Paul addresses this very issue with profound clarity:

"And now, just as you accepted Christ Jesus as your Lord, you must continue to follow him. Let your roots grow down into him, and let your lives be built on him. Then your faith will grow strong in the truth that you were taught, and you will overflow with thankfulness. Don't let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that comes from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world rather than from Christ."

Paul's words reveal several critical truths:

Formation is continuous. Salvation isn't just a one-time decision. While we are secured in Christ, we must work out our salvation daily. Following Jesus isn't a single moment but a lifelong journey of alignment.

Depth comes before direction. Paul urges us to let our roots grow deep into Christ. Just as a tree's root system provides stability before it can grow tall, our spiritual foundation must be established before we can maintain the right direction. We need depth in Christ to avoid being blown off course.

God isn't just number one—He's in everything. Building our lives on Christ doesn't mean making God the top item on our priority list while keeping Him separate from everything else. It means integrating Him into every aspect of life—relationships, work, recreation, decisions, thoughts.

Ideas are not neutral. Paul warns against being captured by empty philosophies. In today's world, this warning is more relevant than ever. Ideas enslave us, often feeling normal until we realize we've drifted far from where we want to be.

The Bait and the Hook

Think about fishing. What's dangerous about it? The water? The hook? Most people wouldn't say the bait is dangerous. Yet the bait is precisely what conceals the danger.

A fishing lure is attractive, colorful, designed to catch attention. The danger—the hook—is hidden inside. This is how spiritual drift often works. Small compromises, attractive ideas, seemingly harmless choices—these are the bait. The danger is hidden until we're already caught.

Most people don't wake up one day and decide to walk away from God. Instead, they compromise little things over time, drifting gradually until they find themselves disconnected from Him, wondering how they got there.

Direction determines destination, not intentions.

Measuring Your Spiritual Alignment

The Artemis spacecraft used three systems to measure its alignment: star trackers to detect star positions, inertial measurement units to track movement, and thermal assessment to gauge the sun's position relative to the craft.

Similarly, we have a biblical diagnostic tool for measuring our spiritual alignment: the fruit of the Spirit.

Galatians 5:22-23 says: "But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things."

This isn't a checklist to achieve through sheer willpower. These fruits are evidence of ongoing sanctification and Christlikeness. They reveal whether we're truly connected to God's Spirit and being formed into His image.

This is not about behavioral management or personality traits. It's about genuine spiritual formation. When we see increasing peace, love, patience, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control in our lives, we're on track. When these qualities are absent or diminishing, we may be drifting.

Here's the critical insight: spiritual fruit isn't produced by trying harder. It comes from surrender and connection to God.

Three Practices for Staying Aligned

1. Check Your Direction Regularly

Just as a spacecraft constantly monitors its trajectory, we need regular spiritual inventory. Where are you drifting? This requires honest self-examination and repentance—not just confessing specific sins, but returning our minds and hearts to God's way of thinking.

2. Stay Rooted in Christ

Pursue God intentionally through daily Scripture reading, prayer, and spiritual disciplines. Christians never drift toward Christ accidentally. We must align with Him intentionally because we live in a fallen world that constantly pulls us in other directions.

3. Stay Connected to God's People

Who we do life with shapes our trajectory. Be careful to surround yourself with voices that not only affirm you but also form you. Some voices will affirm you right into spiritual complacency. We need people who will speak truth, challenge us, and help us grow—even when it's uncomfortable.

The Life You Want Tomorrow

Imagine yourself ten or twenty years from now. Picture a life marked by deep love, genuine joy, lasting peace, patient endurance, authentic kindness, consistent goodness, unwavering faithfulness, true gentleness, and Spirit-empowered self-control.

There are no regrets from these qualities. There's no downside to the fruit of the Spirit. Only life—abundant, meaningful, God-honoring life.

But here's the truth: you don't stumble into that life. You grow into it through deep-rooted faith and intentional alignment.

Think of older couples who finish each other's sentences, who laugh at inside jokes built over decades, who demonstrate patience and kindness that only comes from years of choosing love when it wasn't easy. That kind of relationship doesn't happen by accident. It's built through countless small choices over time.

Your spiritual life works the same way.

The goal isn't perfection—it's continual alignment. It's choosing today to point yourself toward Christ, to root yourself deeper in Him, to surround yourself with people who help you grow.

The life you want tomorrow is shaped by what you align with today.

Freedom without formation leads to drift. But intentional alignment with Christ, sustained over time through His Spirit's power, leads to the abundant life He promises—a life marked by fruit that lasts for eternity.

Where are you pointed today?